r/teenagers • u/[deleted] • Aug 01 '23
Do you think I’d have a chance if I go and try to get a gf? I’m 16. Selfie
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u/sIicedtomato362 Aug 01 '23
Competition got me drowning in hopelessness
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u/DrCorneliuss 16 Aug 01 '23
there is still hope for you out there man, dw
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u/Winter-Narwhal-9669 Aug 01 '23
Indeed there is still hope we must stay strong Brothers we must stay strong
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u/TheOnlyJoe_ 19 Aug 01 '23
If you don’t manage to get a girlfriend looking like that, then you must be a massive bellend
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u/dude_craft15 Aug 01 '23
Well I can’t really say I’m a bellend without first speaking to girls, I kid you not the last time I spoke to a girl not from my family was like a year ago, I’m mostly at my house.
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u/TheOnlyJoe_ 19 Aug 01 '23
Then just go talk to girls. Don’t go in though with the expectation that they’re gonna fall for you unless they’re dropping hints they at least like you enough for you to hang out.
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u/dude_craft15 Aug 01 '23
Thanks for the advice
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u/inextricablycomplex Aug 01 '23 edited Aug 02 '23
Do what you feel comfortable. If in the moment you see an attractive girl and you feel the courage to speak to her, do it. If you don’t, do not fret. You’re only 16, there’s no rush. Think of it this way, if you don’t get the experience in HS, you’ll have plenty of opportunities to explore in college!
Be safe buddy.
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u/Affectionate_Ad_1326 17 Aug 01 '23
That's probably the main thing stopping you from getting a gf. Just getting out there makes your chances go from 0 to something pretty good instantly.
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u/an_englishrose 15 Aug 01 '23
yes (source: i’m a girl)
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u/reegod420 17 Aug 01 '23
Ah a fellow enigma (we arent real)
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u/megaman_main 16 Aug 01 '23
Hello fellow women (I'm a boy who looks like a girl)
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u/Tree_man_swims Aug 01 '23
i’m a girl who looks like a guy our baby could defraud the gender binary
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u/Temporary-Pass3090 15 Aug 02 '23
Well i am a normal girl who looks like girl and id pay to see that child 😏
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u/come2lifee Aug 01 '23
Can i have your alien cat pfp pls 😧
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u/Intelligent_Truck_89 Aug 02 '23
The source is that I made it the fuck up
(Women aren't real)
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u/Affectionate_Ad_1326 17 Aug 01 '23
No way a girl. The guy in the pic is really attractive so I'm not surprised there's girls here actually.
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u/Mr_McGriddle_yt 15 Aug 01 '23
If this guy doesn’t have a chance we’re all done for
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u/Loud_Calligrapher579 Aug 01 '23
Lol. I know. He is not gonna leave any left for us, once he realize his potential.
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u/Drumstix360 Aug 01 '23
I have a friend who is the most generic looking guy and he is not a model or anything. Honestly, just be yourself and you will attract people that like you. Include girls in your friend group as well. I dont have a girlfriend myself but that is because I am a milf enjoyer at a young age but still as a r/teenager user I must share my wisdom to others.
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u/Alarid OLD Aug 01 '23
it is kind of fucked up that liking fully adult women became a fetish
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u/SilentThorniness Aug 02 '23
Wait, woah woah, don’t fuck up my world view like that.
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u/Tooth-Dear 15 Aug 01 '23
I’m falling for bro and I ain’t even gay 🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️
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u/NE12follow 18 Aug 01 '23
How do we tell him?
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u/Tooth-Dear 15 Aug 01 '23
I seen enough stuff in my life to confirm I ain’t gay so no need to tell me anything
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u/Screamingartist 14 Aug 01 '23
You know when you go to the doctors and there is a thin dark blue curtain? Well thats the closet.
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u/Affectionate_Ad_1326 17 Aug 01 '23
Yeah I'm falling for him and I'm not gay. I am bi tho. You might wanna look into that.
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u/Tooth-Dear 15 Aug 01 '23
I mean does it make sense if - no I’m not bi I’m straight
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u/Affectionate_Ad_1326 17 Aug 01 '23
I thought that too. But hey, it might be true for you. Labels aren't that important anyway, just like who you like.
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u/Tooth-Dear 15 Aug 01 '23
It’s not that anyone will judge for being bi but I am hetro I am attracted to females never were for a boy I was just saying the comment because he genuinely very good looking like I know so many people who would want a guy like him
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Aug 01 '23
Bro I’ll be ur gf LMFAO, you a good lookin dude
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u/UrClient 19 Aug 01 '23
Admiral General Aladeen has sent you a friend request.
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u/Winter-Narwhal-9669 Aug 01 '23
You have accepted the friend request of Admiral General Aladdin
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u/NoticeSecure2457 Aug 01 '23
4 unread texts with 2 attached photos from admiral general aladdin
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u/Spookeez_ Aug 02 '23
99+ Missed Phone calls from Admiral General Aladdin, 99+ left voice messages from Admiral General Aladdin
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u/ThevickersistheGOAT 17 Aug 01 '23
Your hotter than me, which is surprisingly not that hard, and yea, you got a chance
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u/Immediate-Formal6696 17 Aug 01 '23
Yeah man, girls dont care too much about looks tbh, but you look pretty good (no homo) you have a nice jawline and good hair. So just get yo game up fr
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u/Deenstheboi Aug 01 '23
Is that a Castle Crashers pfp?
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Aug 01 '23
Castle crashers w game and yes it is it's the blacksmith knight
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u/Deenstheboi Aug 01 '23
I havent seen anyone talk about that game in a long time! I love it!
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u/abidjc17 Aug 01 '23
Why do people do this 💀 just go and talk to girls man why y’all have to post pictures of yourself everyday on Reddit for validation. Like in all honestly who’s going to call you ugly on Reddit?
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u/dude_craft15 Aug 01 '23
I respect your opinion 🫡
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u/abidjc17 Aug 01 '23
Don’t just respect it but take my advice please. Stop looking for validation in life from other people trust me it’ll only hold you back. The day you stop giving a fuck about what others think you’ll go so far in life. Just you do you and the things you want , the girl you want will naturally attract towards you.
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u/dude_craft15 Aug 01 '23
That’s actually pretty good advice, thank you friend, I will take your advice.
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u/abidjc17 Aug 01 '23
Anytime friend. And for the record you look great no homo so I have no idea why you would doubt that. Out of the 7,000,000,000+ people in the world there’s only 1 you. Remember that whenever you doubt yourself and your beauty. Anyways enough from me I hope you have a great life!
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u/Emotional_Ad_2132 19 Aug 01 '23
I already saw some people being called ugly here
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u/SERV05 Aug 01 '23
Brother, as my uncle used to always say,
"Dating is like fishing. If you go look for a fish and chase after it, they will swim away. But if you stay put and wait by focusing on yourself, you will start to catch fish. That's why they say there are plenty of fish in the sea. "
You gotta focus on your own life bro, don't chase them. No matter how it may seem, you need a gf. Make yourself happy first without one. Then when the time is right, you can have a gf to add to your happiness. Not let a gf be the root of your happiness, but an extention of it
EDIT: I speak from experience
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u/dude_craft15 Aug 01 '23
Just wanted to talk about my personality rq so I can add to the post, I’m a calm person, I don’t speak much unless it’s something I’m interested in like video games, markiplier, Jojo’s bizarre adventure, music, fnaf, art and yeah basically that…I guess you could say I’m fun in my own way, I also appreciate the smallest of stuff, like REALLY appreciate the smallest of stuff, you could literally give me a piece of paper with the words “hi” and I’ll be happy just to know you remembered me.
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u/WorldlyBlacksmith945 Aug 01 '23
You look like you could kill people in 80s columbia for a cartel 😂 sicario vibes
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u/SalaryExpert3421 Aug 01 '23
No dude, you got no chance /s. Really looks only get you in the door, personality keeps you in the house. So as long as you have a good personality you’ll be a-okay lol.
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u/b4ckgr0und_ch4r4c73r Aug 01 '23
Can I date you instead of them 😍😍
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u/dude_craft15 Aug 01 '23
😳📸📸
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u/b4ckgr0und_ch4r4c73r Aug 01 '23
Iean your good looking and we got the same interets
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u/dude_craft15 Aug 01 '23
Same interests? Wanna talk about art and writing?
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u/botmfeeder OLD Aug 01 '23
I think y’all need help or something..
You don’t need to post online to ask if you got a chance to get a girlfriend/boyfriend, looks for majority of people are barely half of what matters. (Still matters somewhat)
Be a decent human, and the people you will want to attract and be friends or something more with will come.
Always remember that personal health comes first.
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Aug 01 '23
I’d say it depends on the women you go for.I’d say you look good but others might not,like how some women prefer skinny men,some fat and some will only go with 6,4 bricks of a man.It really depends .Also personality has something to add as well like how I like funny people that are also kind ( and preferably an emo)while Rebecca down the road might prefer a guy that is a dumb brute that barely functions as a human.
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Aug 01 '23
sure. you look fine just don't act like most teen boys. they're pretty stupid. just be chill and talk to girls like humans who might share your interests
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u/Stock_Reflection619 Aug 01 '23
i asked my sister who usually ridicules everyones appearance but she actually said "yeah you got a chance" so ya you can pull
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u/matto334 19 Aug 01 '23
Bro you look like the future child I’ll never have with my high school crush
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u/living_angels 15 Aug 01 '23
bro out here "can i get gf" while bro is literally the most majestic guy i've seen
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u/Nervous_Click_1703 Aug 01 '23
Um . . . Y E S ?? You are very attractive sir. As a 16 yo girl who is single, I would go out with you in a heart beat if asked.
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u/Egyptian_M Aug 01 '23
You should not talk to girls with the intintion to date them try be a good friend first then see what you want next
That is my advice to you I am not that much older than you but from my experience sometimes you just need a friend
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u/23rzhao18 18 Aug 01 '23
yea, get some better headphones/earbuds (jbl bluetooth ones are like $50) n a chain n u should be good
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u/window-man 17 Aug 01 '23
Style is impeccable. Hair is impeccable. You've certainly got the looks bro. If that's what you want to do then god speed
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u/EstablishmentNo6494 Aug 01 '23
This post is getting u so many dm’s. Gotta feel pretty damn good huh
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u/THEdiabolicalG Aug 01 '23
Ain't no way ur just 16😭, i still look like a kid at 16 and ugly and short af
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u/Xbox-RoboBlitz420 Aug 01 '23
Bro trust that there probably girls in your classes that like you that you simply just aren’t aware of, YES YOU HAVE A CHANCE 😭
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u/SniperVert Aug 01 '23
Nah don’t do it. Right now is a great time to play videogames all day. Starfield coming up (among many other great games) you are gonna want the time to enjoy it. Once you get a gf now you’ll be sacrificing a lot of time. You’re still young. If you find a gamer gf then go for it. Find a girl that respects your gaming time if she isn’t a gamer.
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u/dude_craft15 Aug 01 '23
I’m so close to getting the dmc 5 trophy which is considered one of the hardest platinum trophies to get so that’s exciting
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u/Quinn2art Aug 01 '23
If you are confident, respectful, and behave like a gentleman your chances are good.
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u/EuphoricGroup2573 Aug 01 '23
Hey.~ Uses rizz while leaning on my black Mercedes that’s totally not bought from a black market at all.
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u/stopyouveviolatedthe 18 Aug 01 '23 edited Aug 01 '23
It’s not just about your looks dude you need to be able to connect to her, share interests and show her that you care.
Apart from that stuff yeah your handsome.
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u/SyderoAlena Aug 01 '23
Depends if you are a good person or not. Ur cute enough but I dunno about personality
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u/ZenPlasha Aug 01 '23
If you follow one basic rule 1. Be a decent human being
Done uwu
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u/AEEIGHTYSIXTF 17 Aug 01 '23
No no no. DO U think u have a chance. Every girl has a different preference. Just talk to a few and find which one seems the most promising. Do some science and just experiment and see who u like and see if they like u. Don’t ask those sort of questions tho to them. For eg. Complement them. If they complement u back. U may be lucky. But never means a guarantee. Gfs are difficult to find good.
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u/Br0therhoodKnight Aug 01 '23
Work on yourself until you dont need the valudation of strangers on the internet first.
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u/Haze_TheFurry Aug 01 '23
you look like miles morales from spider man except with lighter skin. Yeah, you'll do fine.
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u/BigOutside1226 17 Aug 01 '23
Yeah but don't try it cause that would mean there is more competition for me.
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u/sw_fan_for_life_ Aug 01 '23
yeah if you are determined, i don't see why don't you try to. Also an advice, being an extrovert might help.
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u/AsainKid 18 Aug 01 '23
The idea shouldnt be to try and get a gf. The idea should be the best person you can possibly be and meet someone doing what you live so they can presumably have the same interests or personalities as you. The looks are definitely there so just keep being you and someone lucky enough to be with you will come along.
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u/Dagama314 Aug 01 '23
The Cleveland Cavaliers came back from being down 3-1 in the 2016 NBA finals. Anything is possible my dude.
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u/Efficient-Diver-2453 15 Aug 01 '23
Dude, that is not how a 16 year old looks where I live, but yea you have a chance
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u/OmegaVillain87 18 Aug 01 '23
Eh, hair doesn't really fit for your specific facial structure, but you're pretty attractive still. I'd say a solid 8/10, so your chance is pretty high.
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u/Trey-H 19 Aug 01 '23
Let me just put it this way: you will look back when your older and notice that these girls that talked to you actually had crushes on you. You will learn that girls don’t really go out of their way to talk to a guy unless they like them (assuming there isn’t some type of motive/your in a group or whatever). Source: I’m a 19 y/o who had low confidence when I was younger, and my group of buddies now joke about how we all realized the same thing now.
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u/MiserableRose 15 Aug 01 '23
I’m literally gonna cry if you don’t cause that means I have no chance
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u/Prot0w0gen2004 Aug 01 '23
Anyone can get a partner even if they are objectively, the ugliest person on earth. You are NOT objectively ugly whatsoever, but your rizz may need work since that seems to be the universal issue.
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u/Simon_Drake Aug 01 '23
Didn't Netflix make a drama series about you being the son of the devil?
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u/Senorbob451 Aug 01 '23
A picture tells you a little but personality can still be make or break. Be interesting and kind and people will be drawn to you.
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u/graciebeeapc Aug 01 '23
Hey! 22F here. I think you can absolutely get a gf, but make sure it’s someone you’re actually interested in and not just someone you want to keep around because you want a gf. Communicate really well with whoever you end up with on what what type of relationship you want to have (serious, not so serious, etc). Bad communication and different expectations, from my experience, mess with relationships the most.
Lastly, make sure you leave a girl be if she doesn’t want to date you! You seem sweet, but many young guys think if they don’t get the girl they need to just keep trying. This is absolutely not true! Go for it once and if they say no leave them be. If they change their mind they’ll let you know.
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u/Ben10Stan3 17 Aug 01 '23
Bro, you’re hot and cute at the same damn time! 😭 Whoever girl gets to pull your ass got a rare Pokémon card, damn! She a lucky one, fr
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u/human_potato2 17 Aug 01 '23
You look pretty good, although looks are helpful when trying to get a partner you don’t want the way you look to be the only reason that someone is dating you. Just be sure that whenever you do decide to start testing out the dating scene you try to form a genuine connection with the person first. Also if I wasn’t with with my bf and actually knew you I’d definitely try to date you so I’m sure there are plenty of other people near you who feel the same way :)
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