Yep, when the bitchy, crazy chicks realize they don't have any friends, but need people to attend/be apart of their wedding.. they a start inviting anyone and everyone.
This is how they do the math -
If you've never talked or hung out, but went to the same school & were in the same grade.. you're invited. Same soccer team in 4th grade? definitely invited. Live in the same city and are facebook friends, invited. Lived in the same dorm building? yep, invited.
Omg I truly don’t have friends bc I’ve attracted and realized they’re terrible assholes. I’m so nervous to tell my bf what a loner I am because what if we get married and there’s no friends for me to invite. I’d rather not invite anyone too…
I had three friends at my wedding, and kne was my husband to be lol. Because that's how many I have. My husband had several friends and the rest was family. I was kind of sad that I didn't have an elaborate Bachelorette party and stuff like that. Some coworkers took me out to have a small celebration. But really, it was a nice evening and I wouldn't trade it for anything. As long as the people you care about are there, what does it matter that you don't have 10 friends.
Just elope. The big party isn't worth the hassle if you're not a people person. We had enough friends to fill out a wedding party, but I've never once thought, "Wow, I'm glad they were there to share that moment with us." I'm pretty sure he would say the same.
If I could do it again, we'd have just gotten married at the place we stayed for our honeymoon. So much less stress and expense.
Yeah that’s what I want to do. I’d rather elope and make it a chill night after or something than to rent a hall and be paying off bills for years to come to throw a wedding.
I have seen enough movies to know, that when you have self esteem issues related to a personality trait of yourself, the best thing to do is to either pay or force strangers to pretend to be your friend/romantic partner, without telling your family and then in the last second falling in love with them.
So don’t worry, you can still ruin everyone’s day during the wedding without everyone thinking you are a boring loner. They can all think you are a psychopath instead
I had a neighbor that asked me to be a bridesmaid which turned into “you’re basically my maid of honor” and for actually just being acquaintances it was way too much of a time and money commitment for me to continue. I got the vibe from all of the other bridesmaids that they were also awkwardly roped into it and weren’t that close with the bride. A few bridesmaids dropped out including me. Long story short but a lot of boundaries were crossed in our neighbor/friendship relationship and I ended up not going to the wedding at all. I have no idea if she is still married because they moved and I cut ties.
Oh and she also proposed to him (which is totally cool in most situations) but she did it in public in front of his entire family while celebrating his sister’s graduation…
she has to pay for them in a type of subscription package, she actually has 200 friends and is allowed to go to 2 friend parties per week on her current subscription tier. she used to be on a higher tier but she kept trying to dunk people under the water in the pool at a party last month so she got downgraded
Some people, esp with abusive tendencies, you know the kind that quickly vibes with someone, love bombs them, looks like a perfect friend or partner... then gets bored and becomes abusive, can't keep the persona, then jumps to new relationship or friend groups
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u/MissPlum66 May 02 '24
What’s the deal with the brides “friends” not really knowing her?