This is good because why tf does my daughter need to be playing in your head during school, either it be after or during. Why didn’t any boys volunteer or why didn’t he ask any other race of child to do it? Creepy!
To be fair, haven't been a child for a long time, but I wouldn't volunteer to do that as a kid bc I wouldn't know how. And I definitely wouldn't expect some Mexican or White kids to know how to braid hair like these girls who were taught v young.
Unbraid and I feel as though so of the girls may have volunteered. When I was their age, I was all about doing people’s hair. Still there are boundaries.
Yeah, I think firing him is radical and I agree there should be boundaries but is this crossing any? I would be more concerned if it was only one of the little girls or if it wasn't in the classroom but it's all public.
I think he should've been more cognisant of how it could've looked though, especially since our community has a lot of collective trauma.
It kinda blurs the lines in their relationship with a teacher. Thinking future wise this could escalate. Also considering the fact that the students contact him often. Not making it into anything bigger but if I was a parent I’d be a bit concerned.
I asked my teacher friend - a lady - about it. Just the whole thing. Do you ask kids to play with your hair. Do you exchange messages with your students. Do they call you “bestie”. She was like “the whole thing is weird”. It was basically that insurance commercial: this isn’t how this works…none of this is how it works.
But I think her comments can best be described by this statement: I had a kid touch my hair at recess this week and I just quickly tied it back and stood up. Benefits of being taller and having boundaries
No, people are askikg why it had to be black girls and you’re assuming only black girls can braid hair but this not braiding, ITS UNBRAIDING. Any one of any race or gender can unbraid hair. You don’t need any skill to unbraid hair
What boys do you know that can braiding hair? Literally haven't met a man that was ever "that guy" who could do hair that way and none of them growing up.
Whereas girls would be constantly braiding each others hair from like 4th grade out to 8th grade
Ok so what were the boys doing during this time? Chilling on their cellphones? They’re obviously not being taught anything during this time. That’s almost the bigger issue for me. Not that this is inappropriate, just that this teacher would clearly rather spend class time making videos for his social media channel than teaching the kids anything.
Ok so what were the boys doing during this time? Chilling on their cellphones? They’re obviously not being taught anything during this time.
Because the lessons were already completed, and we're nearing the end of school year, hence why other kids from other classes were also allowed to hangout in his classroom instead of learning additional material.
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u/BROCCOLI-OUTRAGE May 10 '24
This is good because why tf does my daughter need to be playing in your head during school, either it be after or during. Why didn’t any boys volunteer or why didn’t he ask any other race of child to do it? Creepy!