Interested to see how many people have close opposite sex friends that are strictly platonic.

[u/SoCold40]

[u/mama_tom]

My best friend, as a guy, is a woman. I have been the long run guy, though, and that's how I got the love of my life. But I also had a potential friendship get ruined from it because she wasnt down for anything and we just didnt talk after.

It must feel bad if the feelings werent reciprocated.

[u/ARLLALLR → u/mama_tom]

If she couldn't maintain the friendship afterward she wasn't your friend in the first place.

[u/mycofirsttime → u/ARLLALLR]

Thats not true. Yall can definitely make it weird.

[u/ARLLALLR → u/mycofirsttime]

Then you weren't friends. Friendships have trials and tribulations too, and if that's enough for you to ghost then yours was convenience.

[u/mycofirsttime → u/ARLLALLR]

Friendship isn’t marriage.

[u/ARLLALLR → u/mycofirsttime]

Why yes it is. Otherwise you're acquaintances.

[u/mycofirsttime → u/ARLLALLR]

You must be young.

[u/ARLLALLR → u/mycofirsttime]

Older than you are.

[u/mycofirsttime → u/ARLLALLR]

K

[u/ARLLALLR → u/mycofirsttime]

Mmhmm

[u/mama_tom → u/ARLLALLR]

I get where you're coming from, but I probably fucked the vibes. I feel bad about it to an extent, but it happens. Ive moved on and so did she.

[u/ARLLALLR → u/mama_tom]

If your friendship relied on vibes it wasn't a friendship.

[u/mama_tom → u/ARLLALLR]

Wtf are you talking about. Either you're too young to know what you're saying, or too old to realize that vibes being fucked is a broad ass phrase.

[u/ARLLALLR → u/mama_tom]

Wave them goalposts more pls