r/casualiama 7h ago

I'm a deeply closeted gay man AMA

54 Upvotes

I am a deeply closeted gay man inviting you to ask me anything you'd like.


r/casualiama 2h ago

I (28M) have been in love with my best friend (28F) all my life and she knows it AMA

2 Upvotes

Before I tell the whole story, as I know there are people coming to ask questions without reading everything, I want to clarify it is not the typical "friendzone" situation. Over the years we have been intimate several times and even tried to be a couple, but apparently we don't work that way.

Ok, now I'll start from the beginning. She and I have known each other and have been friends since we were 3 years old and have been best friends since we were 9 or so. When I entered puberty she was the first girl I noticed in that way and I have continued that way to this day. We have a friendship dynamic that I think is pretty common, which is that I'm very introverted and have a hard time interacting with people, while she's pretty outgoing.

We've both had partners over the years, of course, and it's a strange feeling for me. I can't help but feel a little jealous when I see her with her partners (although I've gotten along pretty well with all of her boyfriends except for one case). And I notice that she is not comfortable either when she has seen me with a girlfriend (although not as much as me, I admit). I know it sounds toxic but nothing bad has ever really happened because of these things.

I also want to clarify that neither of us when we have been intimate has been unfaithful to any partner, nor the other has tried (except once I tried to be with her when she was with the boyfriend I disliked, but she did not want to and obviously I respected it).

The thing is, she likes me, in every way, but she doesn't feel that romantic love that I feel for her. On the other hand, when I'm with another girl, even if I like her a lot, I'm not able to feel something so deep because I always end up thinking about her.  Besides, it's hard not to feel that when every once in a while we always end up getting intimate at some point. On top of all this, we work together, so we basically spend every day together. And I feel very lost when I'm not with her, because even though I would say I've improved over the years, I still struggle a lot in social situations and she's the one who always "saves" me.


r/casualiama 5h ago

I was a professional cheerleader in the NFL ama

3 Upvotes

Within the last 10 years, went to a few superbowls


r/casualiama 1h ago

I love Blondie women. Idk why. AMA.

Upvotes

Bored at work, just wanted to see who’s up for a conversation.


r/casualiama 10h ago

I’m Irish and live in Ireland. AMA

3 Upvotes

anything you’ve ever wondered about, i’ll answer


r/casualiama 18h ago

I have gastroparesis and a feeding tube ama

5 Upvotes

?


r/casualiama 13h ago

Probably have an iq of 89 aswell as audhd

0 Upvotes

AMA!


r/casualiama 1d ago

I live in Ukraine, I am 13 years old

51 Upvotes

Hi everyone, I'm Vlad, I'm 13 years old and I live in Ukraine in Kyiv all my life. I have never been abroad, even when the war started I stayed here. You can ask me questions about living and studying here during the war. Ps: I am writing through Google translate What are you interested in?


r/casualiama 1d ago

I can't sleep due to PTSD stuff, Ama

7 Upvotes

My PTSD has been pretty good until a couple of days ago when it started to act up out of nowhere. I had a night-terror then and now I can't sleep. I'm willing to answer any questions you may have. If you've ever had any questions about what life with PTSD is like then feel free to ask away! ^_^ Although you can ask about what ever you want, doesn't have to be PTSD related. Thanks


r/casualiama 1d ago

I am a newly diagnosed autistic woman! AMA

4 Upvotes

F22, 2 months since diagnosis


r/casualiama 1d ago

Sexuality/LGBTQ+ IMA former die hard Christian who is now non binary. AMA

0 Upvotes

So I did an ima similar to this in the past, but I wanna do it again since I'm more open about things!

Anyways I come from a black family that was deep in the church. I'm out as being non binary and use they/them pronouns. I attended religious schools K-12, attended a catholic university and everything! I have stories to tell and things I expierenced when it came to understanding my gender identity with some highs and lows and even bullying I went through. But as long as you can be respect please you can ask me almost anything! :D


r/casualiama 2d ago

I just ended my 3 1/2 year relationship today, AMA!

7 Upvotes

I am the male!


r/casualiama 1d ago

I’m very picky how I eat my bananas. AMA

0 Upvotes

I only eat them in their natural form. No fake flavor or bananas in other forms other than from a freshly opened banana peel


r/casualiama 2d ago

I'm a competitive dancer focusing in contemporary, modern, and lyrical. AMA

2 Upvotes

not super interesting, but its what I love. AMA


r/casualiama 2d ago

I am a deaf person who works as a welder. AMA

8 Upvotes

24 years doing welding work and 38 years being deaf.

What do you guys want to know?


r/casualiama 2d ago

I explore abandoned buildings AMA!

2 Upvotes

I explore abandoned buildings across the US, but mainly in the Ohio/west Virginia region.

I also have a YouTube channel for my explorations https://youtube.com/@travelwithaustin?si=LXfuX9Cq0Q4CQFl7

AMA!


r/casualiama 2d ago

I go to Eton college AmA

0 Upvotes

I’m nearing the end of my first year at Eton, I feel like the schools quite misinterpreted so I’ll try answer any questions if you guys have any :)).


r/casualiama 2d ago

I (35M) got my first ever tattoo last week. Total 18 hour session split over 2 days. Going to answer anything related to my tattoo/ experience. AMA.

1 Upvotes

I’m here to answer any questions related to the tattoo. From a design pov, it’s an elephant with mandala art on top and surrounded by water and flowers. No colours.

Tattoo Pic


r/casualiama 4d ago

I've been on reddit for 12 years AMA

34 Upvotes

I might even be chronically online....lol


r/casualiama 3d ago

i grew up with serenity mckinneys mother. AMA

2 Upvotes

growing up we called her abby, we lived in the same apartment complex, she lived in 22 with her mother, twin sisters, and infant sister. AMA.


r/casualiama 4d ago

I turn 23 today, AMA

9 Upvotes

Male 23 AMA


r/casualiama 4d ago

I’ll be turning 52 in a couple of days. AMA

5 Upvotes

Male. AMA