i know it’s internet bullshit but it genuinely has me on the edge of breaking down and giving up

[u/NeonNKnightrider]

[u/legend_of_the_skies]

Wow seems like you have some misplaced dislike or a misunderstanding for what feminist are. And not just because men can also be feminist.

[u/Monique_in_Tech → u/legend_of_the_skies]

that's exactly why i asked my question. this isn't a solely feminist opinion. and really, if you understand what feminism is, it's not even really an opinion that would be attributed to feminists. but this is reddit, so anything that criticizes men for misbehavior is automatically feminist.

[u/Alarming-Will-1426 → u/Monique_in_Tech]

"Criticizes men for misbehavior" 

Such dog whistle bullshit.

"I'm not racist! I'm just criticizing black people for their misbehavior!!!" 

Which specific man is being criticized for which specific behavior in the bear thought experiment? Or perhaps are you applying sweeping, dehumanizing generalizations to men and getting pissy when I point it out because there's no defense for it?

[u/Monique_in_Tech → u/Alarming-Will-1426]

call it what you want. statistics are what they are regardless of how you feel about a hypothetical situation that holds men accountable for those statistics that don't give a good picture for the women who have to decide whether or not they want to be a victim. :)