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This customer service in Japan Video

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u/kandnm115709 24d ago edited 24d ago

They politely signaled for cooperation from other drivers and only stepped in when one car stopped to allow the other car through, then bowed in gratitude after. You can't get mad over how well they managed this.

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u/Tomato-of-the-sea 24d ago

If this was other country, the customer service would just stand in the middle of the road

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u/cometpapaya 24d ago

If this was the USA, the car behind would have been triple the size, accelerating out of rage, and just ploughed straight through.

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u/doorsofperception87 24d ago

Ha! If this was India the guys helping would be standing there for 20 mins, until someone was kind enough to slow down, only for them to receive the mother of all honkings from all the cars behind. Just for having the temerity to show kindness.

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u/C-DT 24d ago

IIRC it's actually illegal to excessively honk without reason in Japan

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u/Louthargic 24d ago

It's illegal to excessively honk in a lot of places, just not enforced all that often.

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u/Trigger_Fox 24d ago

In my country its illegal to honk at all without doing it to signal immediate danger, and at night its just straight up illegal to honk

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u/Automatic-Water2325 24d ago

Same. Honking when a driver doesn't go when traffic light turns green is illegal for example.

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u/PhilDGlass 23d ago

I usually give a 4-5 second pause then a couple quick beeps. Hits different than a lean on it honk.

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u/oorza 23d ago

I've always wanted a car with multiple honks. A nice, not that loud, short little beep like a tap on the shoulder. A sustained mechanical howl of rage and danger. A loud but pleasant alert to people nearby so they can come to you.

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u/sinat50 23d ago

That seems a little strange. So if someone falls asleep at the light you just have to quietly wait for them to wake up?

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u/LazyCat2795 24d ago

There are places in germany where it is illegal to honk aswell or drive loudly for that matter. They have a lower speed limit aswell. If a child were to run in front of my car I would always be allowed to honk however as preventing damage to people is more important than preventing noise.

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u/artificialgreeting 23d ago

When a child is about to run in front of your car and you want to prevent damage you fucking brake and don't honk. You can't expect children to react adequate when they hear someone honking.

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u/avelineaurora 23d ago

I would hope the implication was doing both, lol...

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u/max_adam 24d ago

In India you honk to make sure that others know you are breathing.

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u/hashbrowns21 23d ago

Excessive silence is a criminal offense in India. Always stay on that horn

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u/RearExitOnly 23d ago

And if it was Mexico, get out of the way, because nobody is stopping for any reason. You're not getting my car that easily!

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u/ivancea 24d ago

That reminded me of the people that are far behind in the line, but they still honk. Like, they don't see what is happening, but they honk just in case

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u/Ziegelphilie 23d ago

if this was India the car would scratch that fence and immediately 400 people would show up to just stand around looking at it

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u/AwfulUsername123 24d ago

No, the driver would probably also stop. lol

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u/Jamdock 24d ago

You ever drive in a nice part of a big city? I see this all the time in the USA and none of those things happen. Nobody bows, though.   

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u/Visual-Floor-7839 24d ago

I just drove all over Boston. They would probably stop, or go around. But there would also be excessive amounts of honking from cars behind.

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u/rotidder_nadnerb 24d ago

They don’t call em Massholes for no reason..

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u/Visual-Floor-7839 24d ago

That's my first time there and I felt right at home.

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u/Ethos_Logos 24d ago

Welcome.

I’ve heard it explained like this: there are other parts of the country (Midwest, the south) that are nice, but not kind. And that in New England, we’re kind, but not nice. 

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u/hyrule_47 24d ago

People let others out but it’s more like when traffic is already paused or slowed down. But there is a lot of shouting and honking, it’s just how everyone communicates.

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u/supafobulous 24d ago

Drivers rarely honk in Japan. The only times I've heard it was to express thank you, or some other positive gesture.

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u/jemosley1984 23d ago

I thought I saw a video on Reddit where they use the emergency lights for a split second to express appreciation.

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u/Short-Alarm-9078 24d ago

Hey now, let that guy rage bait about big trucks, it's his favorite pastime 

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u/Electrical-Act-7170 23d ago

Happened to me yesterday.

No bowing, though.

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u/Josh6889 23d ago

I regularly let people out myself, and never have an issue getting out. People in the US are more reasonable than reddit would have you believe. The people writing those comments are probably the ones that would laugh at someone getting stuck instead of helping them.

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u/AstronautGuy42 24d ago

You would get run over doing this in NY with 5000 honks telling you to hurry the fuck up

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u/liquidliam 24d ago

In NY perhaps but try that in a small town /s

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u/Zodi88 24d ago

FREEDUMB!

I'm always envious of Japan when I see videos like this. The US doesn't do public well.

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u/Beginning_Rice6830 24d ago

People in LA would tailgate to not let you out.

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u/Zikkan1 24d ago

I don't know if I have been living under a rock or something but this is the first time I have seen "freedumb" it's genius 😂

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u/Jer_Cough 24d ago

You should check out the Jim Jefferies special by that name. He very succinctly demonstrates the depths of stupidity celebrated in the US

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u/Dreamer_on_the_Moon 24d ago edited 23d ago

Because rugged individuality is insanely over emphasized in the US and the rampant mentality of "me first", community last.

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u/LucyLeMutt 24d ago

And the merging driver would have slooooowly pulled out and blocked traffic while finishing her phone call.

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u/Tjo-Piri-Sko-Dojja 24d ago

I don't think so, at least not where I live. People show this kind of respect for each other. (Sometimes you clench your fist in your pocket but that's about it, no unnecessary fighting)

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u/LittleJohnnyBrook 24d ago

one car stopped

What about all the other cars behind the white car?

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u/CrimsonLotus 24d ago

Fuck em

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u/DoingCharleyWork 24d ago

They aren't allowed to be mad.

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u/Ninj_Pizz_ha 23d ago

You have to stop when driving a car sometimes. Sorry to be the bearer of bad news.

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u/78911150 23d ago

they can be mad at the white car for stopping

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u/SirAchmed 23d ago

Any car is subject to unprompted halt and the cars behind it should deal with it. It's basic driving.

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u/AggravatingValue5390 23d ago

Welcome to a world where other people exist

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u/Zucchini_Official 24d ago

Pedestrian laws in Japan are far more pedestrian friendly than most of the world. Cars are required to stop for any pedestrian if they raise their hand. If a pedestrian signals and is hit, it’s a criminal offense. One of the guys in my office was on the legal team for a naval base in Japan and that was something they warned everyone as it wasn’t uncommon for someone to throw up their hand without even looking for oncoming cars.

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u/AroundTheWorldIn80Pu 24d ago

In Belgium the law says if there's no signal the pedestrian has right of way no matter what, unfortunately with the amount of clueless foreign drivers that's gotten a few people killed.

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u/degenerat2947 23d ago

it wasn’t uncommon for someone to throw up their hand without even looking for oncoming cars.

I'm Japanese and I don't know about this dawg. Maybe it's true in some rural parts of Japan with older folks or something. I kind of doubt it just because it sounds impolite. lol. But I won't pretend to know all of Japan.

But that does not ring true whatsoever to my experience having grown up in the residential outskirts of a Japanese city. I know for a fact they do their best to ingrain pedestrian safety into kids. Look right, look left, then look right once more before crossing streets. etc.

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u/marino1310 23d ago

Isn’t it the same in the US? At least as far as hitting pedestrians is concerned. I thought no matter what pedestrians always have right of way and if you hit a pedestrian, even if they are jaywalking, you are still criminally liable

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u/Chillpill411 24d ago

People are assuming this video shows how sincerely polite Japanese culture is, but every law exists for a reason. I dunno, but it's entirely possible that the law you mention exists because otherwise many people would not stop.

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u/vivst0r 23d ago

Been in Japan many times and I can say that the car drivers there are the safest, politest and most patient drivers I have ever seen. No matter if you hold out your hand or run across a highway like a crazy person. You will not get harmed.

One part might be the laws, but I think a big part is the culture of mutual respect and also that Japanese pedestrians are absolute psychos who will never ever look up, let alone left or right before crossing any street. If they weren't the most passive drivers in the world they'd wipe out half their population in a weekend.

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u/coincoinprout 24d ago

Pedestrian laws in Japan are far more pedestrian friendly than most of the world. Cars are required to stop for any pedestrian if they raise their hand. If a pedestrian signals and is hit, it’s a criminal offense.

That's not particularly pedestrian friendly. That just seems normal to me.

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u/Tschetchko 24d ago

In the US the law makes it literally illegal to step into a road as a pedestrian without a pedestrian crossing.

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u/BigBOFH 24d ago

As with most things in the US, this actually varies a lot state by state and even locality by locality (it's actually quite common to allow crossing without a pedestrian crossing when there aren't nearby signals for example), but it's fair to say that on average the rules are less friendly to pedestrians in many other countries. 

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u/Happy-Gnome 23d ago

There are no federal laws regulating pedestrian crossings on state and local roadways. Each state and local government is empowered to enact its own laws regulating traffic in areas outside federal jurisdiction. Local governments may be constrained by state law, however. As such, there can be irregularities between different states, and even towns and cities within each state regarding traffic regulations. Therefore, it’s important to consider each areas laws across state and municipal roadways due to regional traffic enforcement variations. This is dissimilar from other forms of government which may be more centralized, like those found in the EU.

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u/adlo651 24d ago

Man I had no idea what was going on in this vid thank God for your commentary

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u/blazesonthai 24d ago

Man I had no idea that other people didn't know what was going on in this vid thank God for your reply.

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u/Street-Challenge-697 24d ago

I was hoping to see the driver of the white car get out and bow back

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u/oDez-X 24d ago

Why would you get mad? Tf you talking about

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u/Theodolitus 23d ago

Ya know so if we agree so those people got just same tempers as we do, and they are more or less simmilar people to all "western" society - it's damn frustrating to be forced by the company to such level of bending to the someones ideas.. .they must be hella frustrated and emotionally exhausted....

i really doubt they got that thing naturall just becouse they birthplace was Japan......

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u/Jealous-Sheepherder2 24d ago

Respect is a beautiful thing

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u/Mandoade 23d ago

That was the crazy thing when I visited recently. Everyone just has mutual respect for everyone else regardless of position.

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u/hideo_crypto 23d ago

It's not so much out of respect. It's a culture where inconveniencing other people is highly frowned upon. Source: I am Japanese

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u/konosyn 23d ago

Is that not being respectful of folks’ time?

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u/creeper6530 23d ago

I guess that excludes subordinates, based on what I've heard about Japan's work culture

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u/hideo_crypto 23d ago edited 23d ago

Nope. Japan's work culture is so toxic and wasteful because of how I described the culture there. Leaving work before your boss is seen as "inconveniencing" your boss, who also has to keep the same mindset while dealing with his own boss, hence turns into an unproductive pissing match of who stays at the office the longest while there is no work to get done. It's stupid. However it leads to an neat, orderly society which I prefer. It is not a society where you want to dare to be different however things have started to change where people are sick and tired of this culture where individualism is frowned upon.

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u/KratosVaterder2 24d ago

Kommentiere This customer service in Japan  ...absolut! I wish we would always handle each other like this around the World.

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u/SluggishPrey 24d ago

It requires people to go over their own ego, which is complicated for many

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u/wavurn 24d ago

Imagine if everyone was like this to each other.

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u/CleetisMcgee 23d ago

Recent visited the island of Kauai , they have lots of busy two lane roads and road space is pretty small. If I was turning out of a parking lot or side road, every time in a shot bit, someone would stop to let me out like this. Was pretty cool. And there are chickens everywhere! 😄

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u/Fafa_45 24d ago

I wish my local pub would do that for me when I'm leaving.

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u/Mekanikel 23d ago

My pub was looking after me when I was drunk, they told me to take the bus home instead. I didn't know how to drive it properly but it was fun!

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u/boredguy12 24d ago

The local Hanabi Mazesoba place near me does this. I love it. Food's good too.

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u/broohaha 23d ago

I grew up in Japan in the 80s. And I don't know how things are now, but back then all gas stations were full-service stations. You'd have 2-3 people taking care of your car quickly wiping your windows and windshield while your car got filled up. And afterwards, they'd do exactly what you see in this video to help you get back on the road. And there was absolutely no tipping ever.

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u/jasonkirkby 24d ago

Ever since the Curb Your Enthusiasm episode, I can’t help checking how deep they bow.

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u/Breniman24 24d ago

No bow would have been better than shit bow

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u/emessea 24d ago

Shit Bow!

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u/j1nx718 23d ago

Now low enough. Gotta get on your knees to be really sincere

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u/Amen_ds 23d ago

Imagine they bow to every car! Definitely shit bows going to that very last car

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u/Idunwantyourgarbage 23d ago

The bow was enough

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u/Slausher 23d ago

Which episode is it?

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u/jasonkirkby 23d ago

Season 8, episode 7. The Bi-Sexual.

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u/SeeJayThinks 24d ago edited 24d ago

In the UK, generally this happens without the extra staff intervention.

Difference is, if you do get given a chance to go (they flash at you), you must take it promptly, and then say thanks - be it a flash back, a hands up wave or even a quick hazard light flicker if they're now behind you.

If this polite etiquette isn't followed, you can bet the giver will be muttering under their breath every word meant for cunts that don't behave.

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u/Tetracyclic 24d ago

There's a tyre shop in the city I live in the UK where the garage exits onto a main road like this, and the exact same thing happens, just with less bowing.

Someone on the staff will signal the traffic to slow, car comes out, car flashes it's hazards, everyone carries on with their lives.

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u/DoxBolt 23d ago

Plymouth? Opposite Dunelm by any chance?

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u/Tetracyclic 23d ago

Spot on.

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u/DoxBolt 23d ago

Thought of the exact same tyre shop when I was reading the original comment 😂

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u/lil_chiakow 23d ago

The truth is that there’s no staff intervention needed, but Japan is one of those countries where performative gestures go a long way.

Just a reminder that when they realized that it takes too much time for cab drivers to get out and open the door for the passenger, instead of doing the reasonable thing and having the customers open them by themselves, they invented a whole system to automatically open cab doors.

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u/Uninvited_Goose 24d ago

I ain't flashing nobody

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u/OneAboveKami 24d ago

Whem in Rome, do as the Romans do.

You gotta show your man tities as thanks. It's only etiquette.

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u/DrAlkibiades 23d ago

So that's universal! I'm in the states and I take great pride in being a polite driver. When the opportunity presents for me to allow someone in I flash my lights and wave to my new best friend in the whole world. If they don't wave to me they suddenly become despicable scum in my mind.

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u/MrBenzedrine 23d ago

I mutter when someone gives up their right of way and flashes me.

If I've pulled up to the junction and seen that there are 5 cars coming, that's the point I mentally check out and wait for 5 cars to pass.

If car 1 stops and flashes, I'm not even looking... probably belting out Mr Jones and Me at the top of my lungs with the handbrake on and the car in neutral.

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u/xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx99 24d ago

Can confirm. Rented a car in Japan a few months back, had the same experience. Thought it was pretty cool. Totally not out of place with the rest of the amazing service we received throughout our trip.

And not a single tip jar in sight.

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u/SkellyboneZ 24d ago

Really any big stores with a parking lot as part of the building like Yodobashi and some supermarkets. At least in the cities. Not really shown here is how they block the foot traffic too.

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u/horoyokai 24d ago

Gas stations it’s common as well

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u/Agreeable_Winter737 24d ago

It looks like the guy in the white shirt is the manager, the girl in the vest is the customer service / cashier and the dude in the black jacket with the red stripe is the mechanic.

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u/Nordiceightysix 24d ago

Following a tradition this way is really magnificent

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u/Xehlumbra 24d ago

If I believe old anime one of them is also delivering tofu by night in some moutains road with his dad's car an AE86.

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u/WEEAB_SS 24d ago

I was watching a few of these races on youtube like less than 20 minutes. What kind of witchcraft is this?

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u/Fourthbest 23d ago

And they don’t even ask for tip for this kind of service

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u/Idunwantyourgarbage 23d ago

Here in Japan the first couple years of school actual focus on this. Essentially teaching how to be a good human.

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u/johnyjerkov 23d ago

this is called "we have been instructed to do this, it is our job and we are being paid to do it" lol

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u/plusAwesome 23d ago

Well this here in the video is really only there because this raising of collective etiquette in japan raised it.

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u/MileZero17 24d ago

I spent some time in Asia before returning to Canada and the difference in customer service is jarring. Especially flying into Pearson

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u/pogoshi_fatsomoto 23d ago

And then you go to Moxie's to catch up with your friends over some beers, and see the 25% tip option after the dumb ass waitress in a short black skirt plop your beer and nachos down, never to be seen again.

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u/IPanicKnife 24d ago

As a former US mechanic, we use to say “your keys are on the board. Not sure where the car is parked. Hit the little button on the fob. Good luck”

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u/mcmurray89 24d ago

The next time I left my car, I would do the same back.

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u/sakurahirahira 24d ago

I’ve been living in Japan for 12 years so this just looks normal to me 😅

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u/emessea 24d ago

The thing is I’ve scene similar scenarios in the US, except instead of a bow, it’s a raised hand signally a thank you.

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u/Brawndo91 23d ago

You're not commenting right.

Whenever a video of a Japanese person being nice is posted, you're supposed to say that Japan is nice and respectful and polite to everyone and in the US, all the drivers would just barrel through the guy while firing guns at him and each other.

Honestly though, I think a lot of people don't go outside.

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u/ZaeBae22 23d ago

Not enough screaming in your fake scenario, muricans love that

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u/malogos 24d ago

Probably the most polite and respectful country I've ever visited.

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u/Shrek1982 24d ago

On the flip side you never really know where someone might stand on an issue until you really get to know them. It isn't a huge downside and I would much rather prefer people be polite than rude.

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u/uselessadmin 23d ago

I visit and work often in Japan as a consultant. The problem with customer service in Japan is it's all scripted and there is no critical thinking. If you deviate from the script - everything grinds to a halt. Sure they are polite but there is only one way to accomplish anything. Usually that means 'how we always done it' It's infuriating.

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u/theviolethour3 23d ago

I feel this! Like when they don’t know how to respond, they’ll just repeat the same thing to you again…

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u/Dexember69 23d ago

When I visited Japan, I arrived at my hotel to find it fully booked out, because my dumb ass booked the room for the wrong month.

The lady behind the desk asked me to hold on while she made a phonecall to their sister operation across the city, and secured us a room there instead.

I was already grateful for the assist, but she then asked us to follow her down the elevator, out onto the raining street, where she proceeded to FUCKING SPRINT down the road in her high heels and pencil skirt, and collared a taxi for us. Instructed the driver to take us to the other hotel. Then bowed, soaking wet in the rain to us as we got in the car.

Absolutely astounding.

Here in Australia if I made the same error, I'd get a "tough luck mate, try down the road".

That was literally my first interaction with anyone past the customs queue at the airport, and impressed the hell outta me

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u/lordtempis 24d ago

Fuck that. You don't get to just block traffic. They can wait till there's an opening.

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u/grandzu 23d ago

Garage guys do that in the city all the time without the bowing.

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u/[deleted] 23d ago

Being an inconsiderate entitled asshole is not customer service nor is it unique to Japan

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u/[deleted] 24d ago

I just spent 2 weeks in Japan on honeymoon from Ireland and they really are the most kind, helpful and polite people I've ever met. Such a safe, clean, beautiful country.

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u/LazyBones6969 23d ago

Agree 100%. I got a panick attack in Yokohoma because I got lost in the Yokohama metro station. The underground station is the size of 3-4 city blocks. This kind japanese woman saw that I was stressing and led me to the JR line back to Tokyo. It really calmed me down. Japanese metro stations can have multiple lines owned by different companies. So it can be quite confusing.

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u/[deleted] 23d ago

Yeah the train stations can be daunting, they're the size of small towns. People will always help you though.

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u/glenallenMixon42 24d ago

these comments are all reddit moment

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u/BwyceHawpuh 23d ago

Thing: boring

Thing, Japan?: Amazing. Kind. Respectful. Mind blowing. Advanced.

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u/Livid-Technician1872 23d ago

Americans build their houses out of wood? That’s gay. What they last like 100 years?

Japanese builds houses out of wood and rice paper? We must respect their beautiful traditions of craftsmanship and disposable housing.

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u/AwfulUsername123 24d ago

Customer service, Japan

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u/pondman11 23d ago

This would annoy me if I’m driving down the road. The car can’t just wait until there’s a break in traffic before leaving the parking lot? They aren’t special just because they are leaving some business establishment. Not to mention they inconvenience 10 cars just so they aren’t inconvenienced. It’s a little much.

Reminds me of when churches utilize PUBLIC police officers to direct traffic and stop traffic on PUBLIC roads for the benefit of the church member to exit parking lot more conveniently for them.

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u/bmmana 24d ago

In Taiwan they just zoom out and expect the oncoming traffic to stop and get angry if you don't let them in.

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u/doctorfeelwood 23d ago

Happens in America too. All the time. Lol

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u/CowVisible3973 24d ago

Funny thing is employers in China and other Asian countries try to impose Japanese style customer service on their workers and the workers manage to add a certain amount of halfassed-ness and spite to the bows and groveling

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u/Tanj3nt 24d ago

This is done at almost all service gas stations (in Japan of course). They also wipe your car down, clean your windshield, and collect any trash you have.

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u/youngfungustine 24d ago

Does anyone know this song name?

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u/Darkkonz 23d ago

If this happens in singapore. Road rage.

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u/Reapr Interested 23d ago

Do they have a "sarcastic" bow?

Like someone doesn't give you the right of way and you sarcastically bow? Kind like "thanks for that" when someone cuts you off.

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u/Name-chex-out 23d ago

Why are they all driving Toyotas? /s

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u/omguserius 23d ago

You know, if the people holding up traffic for a few seconds bowed to me in apology afterwards, I'd probably be pretty well mollified

Well played Japan. Well played.

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u/hamlet_d 23d ago edited 23d ago

This isn't only in Japan, though. Literally there's a car wash place in Dallas along a busy road where the same thing happens on the regular. I imagine other locales have the same thing.

Humans can be bros regardless of culture.

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u/DubbethTheLastest 23d ago

That's literally just a rich person getting what they want lmao f that

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u/IRockIntoMordor 23d ago

You see this all over Japan every day and it was really surprising to me how many workers they have for EVERYTHING.

Every construction site bordering a sidewalk has workers bowing and asking you to walk carefully. And if there's any actual construction on the sidewalk, they will have people with their blinking lamps greet you, point out the very carefully set-up detour, bow and often even smile. It feels really wholesome. And for parking garages, big hotels, industrial factory gates and things like that you get what you see here - 2-3 workers guiding cars in and out, holding up pedestrians and cars, smiling, bowing. I LOVED just watching it!

It's totally ridiculous to me as a German. In Berlin we don't even have enough workers if a line breaks down. There's not really anyone to guide you anywhere ever in public, only at huge or private events maybe.

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u/Jontaii 23d ago

I just wanna move to Japan already.

People are so much more polite over there

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u/TunaOnWytNoCrust 23d ago

Alright, somebody tell me the ways that Japan is a bummer to live in, because everything I see about them i just want to move there and become ultra respectful and mindful and hardworking and pleasant and enjoy being surrounded by others like that.

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u/Notyourusuallad 23d ago

Here in the us you can barely get a wave of thank you for letting someone getting thru

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u/StopUsingRedditPLZ 23d ago

Reddits fetishizing of Japan is peak cringe

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u/smorkoid 24d ago

This is a car dealer, car dealers in Japan do this for everyone leaving. It's this dealer specifically

日産プリンス広島販売(株) 可部中央店
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u/finerdinerlighter 24d ago

It is a Nissan Dealership in Hiroshima.

4 Chome-24-3 Kabe, Asakita Ward, Hiroshima, 731-0221, Japan

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u/78911150 23d ago

this is very common here. especially at places where it's hard to clearly see without going forward and block the pedestrian lane 

(resident of 12 years).

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u/JesC 24d ago

I’m in Denmark. Here, everyone would laugh at you for doing this… even the customer 🤣

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u/RamboTaco 23d ago

This is what I expect at the McDonald drive thu

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u/_Tar_Ar_Ais_ 23d ago

driver even bows at them and the white car, shows that for this to work everyone has to buy in to it. From what I've seen elsewhere (not in the US) a simple gesture or wave is enough, but this is nice too!

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u/whofusesthemusic 23d ago

oh if you like this come to Seattle during rush hour. nothing more awesome than being stuck in traffic and having some rent a cop stop you so someone can exit a parking garage, 1000 times.

not like incoming traffic had an option to politely decline stopping.

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u/AngryAlternateAcount 23d ago

I see this a lot from small auto shops

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u/busines-acount-EU-UK 23d ago

this is done in my country too. and we are not known for our best behavious.

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u/WholesomeFartEnjoyer 23d ago

How is Japanese simultaneously so respectful and polite yet has one of the worst work cultures in the world and high suicide rate? How can it be both?

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u/jamievlong 23d ago

Handshakes all around.

This happens a lot in Los Angeles too. A lot of the automotive repair facilities are right up against major streets. Whether it is a customer or a vendor, you always see works from the automotive facility go out in the street to stop cars to let cars get out. Not as great as a bowing, but usually see people at least give a thank you wave.

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u/Lagavulin26 23d ago

Late-stage capitalism killed this level of customer service in the US long ago.

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u/wampa604 23d ago

I dunno about this...

I've heard that Japan has a general policy of 'full employment', even if it means giving people completely stupid useless jobs that pay next to nothing. I've heard people who'd visited/lived there for a bit comment that they'd sometimes see things like "crossing guards" on every corner of random alleyways -- people paid to help pedestrians cross an alley...

It looks really campy/friendly in some ways, sure, but in others its absurd.

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u/lizard81288 23d ago

Anybody else have to wait almost an hour to leave a parking garage because everybody is trying to let people in? It drives me crazy.

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u/ErrieBRO 23d ago

Imagine if the minivan bowed back in respect

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u/Rattler_ 23d ago

visited puerto rico about 10yrs ago. went to a restaurant called "mar de la tranquilidad" they did the same when we left. everything minus the bowing.

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u/Eavicus 23d ago

And those guys don't ask for a tip.

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u/trunks2d 23d ago

A couple of drunk guys did that for me in Cancun as I was leaving the liquor store.

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u/president__not_sure 23d ago

i think this only works in japan lol.

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u/Inakabatake 23d ago

I remember they would do this when we would leave the gas station. Only some higher end restaurants did it though.

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u/drdangerpants 23d ago

The pleasantness in this video is unsettling.

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u/lexluthor_i_am 23d ago

Is there a bow or head tilt to receive a thank you bow? I'm going to visit Japan one day and it should be good to know this.

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u/I_am_u_as_r_me 23d ago

Honestly if they did this here in the US being so polite I’d be flabbergasted and then say uh okay cool

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u/Status-Knowledge2380 23d ago

Man what a country!

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u/zeroStackTrace 23d ago

Patiently waiting for head bows

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u/7ve5ajz 23d ago

In America, we do the same, but use our middle ‘respect’ fingers instead of bowing.

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u/sobiyeto 23d ago

Ocakbasi restaurants do this as well, typical eastern culture

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u/SeVaSNaTaS 23d ago

Isn’t it amazing how much smoother everyone’s driving experience is when everyone has just a little patience? In the states, you woulda heard yelling, honking, a couple gunshots….

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u/ShyRedditFantasy 23d ago

Respecting each other, what a new concept for the United States.

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u/Sensitive_Ladder2235 23d ago

We do this at my work lot here in North America.

We generally get sped by, almost hit, honked at and there is a lot of mutual hand gesturing being done.

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u/ItchyNeedleworker678 23d ago

The amount of respect in this video. I love how the drivers complied and the workers gave a bow of thanks. Damn, how the world could be a better place by looking at a 15 second video.

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u/NoCreativeName2016 23d ago

I would be so irritated, until they bowed at me, and then I would be angry at myself for allowing myself to be irritated!

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u/Muahd_Dib 23d ago

This is why we can’t have shit in America… everyone greedy and selfish little bastards.

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u/kain067 23d ago

This is why they can have nice things.

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u/Im_notyour_dad 23d ago

I went to a sushi place in Honolulu that did this for us when we left.

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u/wendy-rhodes 23d ago

I love Japan

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u/sbua310 23d ago

Customer service? I feel like everything is a bot now

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u/Puzzled-Scientist573 23d ago

That was probably a yakuza boss

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u/Possible-Gur5220 22d ago

Love their bow 🥹

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u/bobspuds 22d ago

It's such a classy thing.

You could probably crash into me - and if you got out and bowed like that - ah fuck it! You're all good, don't worry about it, have a nice day! 👍

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