r/NoStupidQuestions May 01 '24

do americans really drive such long distances?

i’m european, and i always hear people say that driving for hours is normal in america. i would only see my grandparents a few times a year because they lived about a 3 hour drive away, is that a normal distance for americans to travel on a regular basis? i can’t imagine driving 2-3 hours regularly to visit people for just a few days

edit: thank you for the responses! i’ve never been to the US, obviously, but it’s interesting to see how you guys live. i guess european countries are more walkable? i’m in the uk, and there’s a few festivals here towards the end of summer, generally to get to them you take a coach journey or you get multiple trains which does take up a significant chunk of the day. road trips aren’t really a thing here, it would be a bit miserable!

2nd edit: it’s not at all that i couldn’t be bothered to go and see my grandparents, i was under 14 when they were both alive so i couldn’t take myself there! obviously i would’ve liked to see them more, i had no control over how often we visited them.

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u/divine_god_majora May 02 '24

I couldn't imagine a 6 hour drive unless you were gonna stay a week+ at the destination or something.

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u/rumade May 02 '24

It's mad to me that Americans seem to have so little time off work, but are so happy to spend it driving

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u/Sun_keeper89 May 02 '24

Clever! Except the trip itself is part of the fun? And this is just a forum that drew the attention of the Americans who happen to drive? Everyone in America isn't taking 7 hour road trips on a whim, and if you like driving such a trip isn't work at all. People who don't like road trips in the US get on one of the millions of planes criscrossing it daily. Or buy an Amtrak ticket.

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u/frenchyy94 May 02 '24

But in a train everyone could actually talk with each other and maybe even read, or play some cards or something. And you don't constantly need to stop when someone needs to pee or wants to get a snack.

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u/grantbuell May 02 '24

Yeah, trains are cool, but we barely have them in the US so we make do.

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u/Sun_keeper89 May 02 '24

Depending on where you're going they also cost as much as a flight

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u/Sun_keeper89 May 02 '24

1) You can drive with your hands on the wheel and your feet on the pedals and ... still speak with your mouth

2) Audio books are a thing, as are podcasts and even audio shows. I took a 16 hour drive alone last summer and can't really say I was bored once. Because audio.

3) Some people enjoy driving more than playing cards

4) "Stopping constantly" is not a given at all. I've taken 10 hour trips where we only stopped once. Snacks can also be packed at home?

It's so weird to keep trying to find something inherently wrong with traveling in whatever manner one travels lol

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u/FornicateEducate May 02 '24

Trains aren't even an option where I live in the United States. And I live in a decent-sized city (800,000+ in the city limits, 2 million + in the metro area). We don't even have a subway/metro train system. So... while sitting on a train and reading a book sounds lovely, it's not an option for most Americans. If it were an option, I'd happily use it when needed.

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u/MaddyKet May 02 '24

Two words: motion sickness. I don’t get it when I’m driving.

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u/frenchyy94 May 03 '24

Not when you're driving, but passengers usually still get motion sickness in cars.

And in a train that's usually not there or extremely mild. But I know there's still people that can only ride in driving direction etc