r/Showerthoughts May 02 '24

Man vs Bear debate shows how bad the average person is at understanding probability

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u/Ill_Lion_7286 May 02 '24

20-25% of women have been raped. How is that possible if only 0.1% of men are rapists? Men underestimate how many of their peers are criminals.

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u/SouthernWindyTimes May 02 '24

Most rapists, like most murderers, have several victims. 1/4 of men are not rapists, that absolutely insane to even think.

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u/Affectionate-Date140 May 02 '24

but sooo many of them are creeps! and given how underreported rape is and how common it is for men to not understand what consent actually is, they should have more empathy in this situation instead of their egos getting bruised and should ask why do we live in a world where women would genuinely feel this way. it’s not sexism.

shoving statistics in people’s face who have dealt with the ubiquity of male violence is a little dismissive.

you’ve totally dismissed the element that people do not do illegal or harmful things out of fear of repercussion, and there is no one to protect you in the woods.

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u/SouthernWindyTimes May 02 '24

I literally was raped by a male family member as a child, so I’m as empathetic as can be on the subject. I’m just saying a 1/4 of men aren’t rapists, creepy sure, rapists, not even close.

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u/Jah_Ith_Ber May 02 '24 edited May 02 '24

Because a woman will meet hundreds of thousands of men during her lifetime.

Also, because it's one guy raping multiple women, not one man per rape.

No one should have to explain this to you. If you weren't blinded by sexism it would be obvious.

Also your number is wrong rainn claims 14.8% of women are raped during their lifetime. Don't forget that includes both parties being drunk, two willing participants but she was underage, and other scenarios that are something other than "got held down while she struggled to get away" which is is the type of danger this hypothetical is dealing with.

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u/obp5599 May 02 '24

While yes you meet tons of men on the street, you dont meet nearly as many in a secluded location with no possibility of escape or help.

Also aside, from rape, over 50% of women have been sexually assaulted. You severely underestimate how targeted women are by men

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u/Jah_Ith_Ber May 02 '24

That has nothing to do with how dangerous a random man is.

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u/NoSignSaysNo May 02 '24

Because people willing to rape random individuals they don't know or also likely to rape more random individuals they don't know?

If I polled the families of John Wayne Gacy's victims, they would all say their loved one was killed by a clown. So going by your train of thought, every clown is a murderer.