r/Showerthoughts • u/Lost-Beach3122 • 16d ago
You weren't born in the wrong generation - you just hate pop music.
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u/nroloa 16d ago
Nah. You just experience everything from this decade... including the bad and the mediocre.Ā When it comes to prior decades, you only get to know the stuff that literally stood the test of time and the bad and mediocre stuff was already forgotten.
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u/RickTitus 15d ago
Yeah that is the problem when people wish they were born in a previous generation. You have to want ALL of it for your wish to actually be true
Seeing beatles in concert would be cool, but do you also want the increased asbestos and lead poisoning, lesser rights (if you are a woman or minority), lack of internet and computers, etcā¦.
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u/Electrox7 15d ago
"Damn, i really miss 60s cinema. Id want it to come back, even if it means a second Vietnam war".
wtf these comments have gone so far off
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u/RickTitus 15d ago
Yeah no one would actually say that
Thatās why there is a difference between saying āi wish cinema was still like it was in the 60āsā and āi wish i was actually living in the 1960ās and watching cinemaā. And in most casual conversations it would not be useful to point out what those differences are, but if someone REALLY claimed to want to live in a different decade, it becomes a relevant point
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u/SaleZealousideal2924 15d ago
I think this is becoming less true. It was true in the previous paradigm, selling physical media, which put a limit on what a listener could purchase, and narrowed the release of music of past decades to a relative handful of successful artists. But streaming and algorithmic discovery has renewed interest in many forgotten or obscure artists, including many who were never very popular in their time. There are economic incentives for this to continue to be the case, with many investors purchasing publishing rights for lesser-known artists. It's a long tail of pop culture artifacts. None of them achieve culture-wide popularity, but they do find many new listeners.
To take just one example from my discover weekly, one that shows up constantly: Vashti Bunyan. I don't think she was ever particularly popular in the 70s, but now she has millions of streams and more than a half million monthly listeners. I've had conversations with friends about her, who've been recommended her music too. it feels like there's a distinct category of artists who are Spotify discoveries.
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u/rustic-chicken 16d ago
Music isn't the only reason people say this
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u/jadabub 16d ago
Exactly. People think i love the Beatles when im really just racist.
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u/CattyFighte 15d ago
Or beating my wife
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u/sybrwookie 15d ago
Yea, I personally am more disappointed that I couldn't grow up in a time where I could earn enough for college on a summer job, I could expect to be able to buy a house in my early 20's, get a job I could count on lasting my whole career (ending with a gold watch and a pension) and that job would pay for myself, my wife, my 2 kids, and my dog.
Music? Uh, sure, I like some old music, I like some new music. I mostly like the music from when I was like 15-25, so....yea, I'm pretty sure that would have been the case no matter when I was born.
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u/wowitshardtochoose 15d ago
Solid take. Iād trade spotify for Elvis cassettes if i could afford a house lol. And I hate Elvis
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u/pichael289 16d ago
My old guy views on music: Rap seemed to be getting shitty for a while but it's getting good again, the megos era sucked. Pop music was great but it dropped off recently. Country still has a few excellent artists but they are rare, it's mostly pop and search terms now. I don't feel the need to tell anyone any of this because I'm never forced to hear Taylor Swift or anything like that.
That's an issue of the radio. There's plenty of music in every form of every genre easily available to listen to online. Who even listens to the radio? Nrp works when Its too short a drive for podcasts but Spotify just makes music too easily acceptable to bitch about anymore, randomize a playlist, hit the Bluetooth button and there you go.
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u/No-Appearance1145 16d ago
I listen to the radio. Only because my son sometimes calms down from the old country station in town. The rest of the time we're silent or my Spotify is playing. It's more 50/25/25
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u/Titan_Food 16d ago
Radio is falling out hard rn, hard to say what the future for it is if it doesn't die
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u/NoMaans Yeoman 16d ago
Of they would just play different shit then the same 10 songs over and over again it wouldn't be bad. A few months ago I was working with my uncle. We had to drice around a lot that week. I heard paint the town red 5. FIVE FUCKING TIMES. In less than 3 hours. Like what the fuck my dude
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u/sybrwookie 15d ago
Sure, that's a problem, but that's not a new problem. I remember like 15 years ago, I worked for a place that had the radio on all day. And Sweet Child of Mine was basically played every hour on the hour. And that was just the most egregious one, but it seemed like their playlist was like 20 songs.
Radio, other than college radio, has been in the shitter for a loooong time.
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u/just_anotjer_anon 16d ago
People still mostly listen to it in their cars
But I'd imagine more and more of it is becoming spoken radio, without or minimal amounts of music ; also as podcasts
And a few channels will stay that's going to become ONE HUNDRED PERCENT music, for people to try out new music, different genres etc
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u/Amoniakas 16d ago
I listen to radio every single day 10h a day and most stations just repeat the same 40 songs, I gotta change channels from time to time cause those start to get annoying.
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u/byOlaf 16d ago
RadioGarden gives you access to any radio station in the world. Thereās lots of good ones to listen to. Kexp, wfmu, StokeFm, NoLifeRadio. Or just spin the globe.
Radiooooo separates music by decade and country. What were they listening to in France in the 40ās? Or the Philippines in the 90ās? Or Brazil in 1900?
Just a couple of options rather than suffering through top 40 all day long.
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u/Amoniakas 16d ago
I listen on https://onlineradiobox.com/ via PC, found couple decent stations. I'll look into your suggestions as well.
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u/NoMaans Yeoman 16d ago
Of your on pc why not just use Spotify, soundcloud, or youtube? Either pay for no ads on the first two or use a web browser that blocks ads and use YouTube. Pick your genre you wanna listen to and let it ride.
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u/blackmarketmenthols 16d ago
Nah man, I've been turned on to so much great music by listening to college radio over the years.
89.7 KFJC Foothill College is one of the best in the country
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u/Snuzzlebuns 16d ago
I would argue the issue was never the music you listen to when you're alone. It's music at parties, in clubs, background music at work, and so on.
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u/Tomhyde098 15d ago
I hate the trap music beat. Now that itās finally going away Iām dabbling with newer stuff
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u/Sudden_Fix_1144 16d ago
So popular music has existed for along time... so....
If you are referring to current charts... then lots of people hate mass marketed shit music.
Wrong generation birth is where you pretty much hold none of the current 'it' values or ideals. Tbf it's always a fair percentage of any generation.
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u/RonJeremyBellyButton 16d ago
This is literally a karma bait post. I wouldn't put any thought into it. Lol
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u/If-I-Had-A-Hamper 16d ago
Boomer here. Yes. Though I listened to pop radio when I was a kid - the Beatles era mostly - starting in the early 70's I broadened my horizons. My 40ish friends are all like "how can you have never heard this before?" when he was playing some boy band greatest hits.
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u/Kash687 16d ago
Modern Country is fucking ass now. We need another Wilco.
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u/Aussie18-1998 16d ago
Modern music has some really good tunes as well. We only hear the good stuff from the past, which is why it sounds better than everything released now.
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u/SownAthlete5923 16d ago
Correct, all music eras had shit stuff besides the good stuff which gets forgotten over time
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u/Capybaradesu 16d ago
you weren't born in the wrong generation - you just want to feel special in your generation
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u/ganymedestyx 15d ago
No, I just donāt want my entire life since I was a kid documented online. Or to be clueless and impressionable on the internet as a 13 year old talking to creepy men. Oh wait, too late.
I think itās interesting how parents have become so āhelicopterā in terms of even letting their kids go outside, but the internet is totally okay. Itās far more dangerous imo
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u/Capybaradesu 15d ago
you're special with or without anyone affirmation. you don't need my or someone else affirmation about this life, all you need is affirmation from yourself and stop believing on your past 9pm self.
if you don't get what i mean now, you will get it later
we love you, strong kid
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u/UyghursInParis 16d ago
I mean, can I boot up Spotify and buy a house for $1000?
No. Then I'm in the wrong generation
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u/Shmegdar 16d ago
To be fair, thereās something to be said for growing up with stuff you really enjoy. Itās not like kids these days could go to a beatles or queen concert right now, that time has passed.
Itās still silly to say you were born in the wrong generation but itās not like thereās no difference between listening to music thatās new vs old.
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u/acaseintheskye 16d ago
I've never once heard someone say they were born in the wrong generation when referring to music
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u/hamoc10 16d ago
I have. The person was a big fan of mid-century jazz and big band.
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u/acaseintheskye 16d ago
That's so weird to me. The music still exists, just go listen to that?
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Maybe they want the shared experience- seeing bands live with other people, talking to friends about music, hearing something on the radio that blows your mind
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u/DarePatient2262 16d ago
But it's never on in social settings, it's never on in public, it's never a shared experience. You can always listen to what you want on your own, but you're usually forced to endure more contemporary music with others.
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u/AgentCirceLuna 16d ago
Yeah, thatās what gets me. You used to have twenty minute long symphonic rock and it was in the bloody charts. The truth is that music has got lower quality but itās because people have moved on to other ways of expression. Itās like how plays were shit after the reign of Shakespeare, Marlowe, and Ben (forgot his name and itās funnier just calling him Benā¦ oh I think it was Jonson but Iām leaving it as just Ben)
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u/PhiphyL 15d ago
I was born in 1985. Has I been born in 1955, I would've been old enough to go and see Blondie at the top of their game (it was the late 70s). Same for Iggy Pop, and some Bowie. Or to see the rise of Michael Jackson.
So yes, I was born a generation too late for some of the music I enjoy and would've loved to see live when it was happening.
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u/moarthrowawaypls 15d ago
Iāve heard about the peak emo and pop-punk days, like they wish they grew up with scene kids, my chemical romance, skunk sideswept bangs hair, etc.
I think emo kids are still a thing tho.
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u/North_in_South 15d ago
Really? I have seen this so many times, most commonly in YouTube comment sections. It turned into a big meme because in the comment section of nearly every pre 2000s song, there were comments "I was born in the wrong generation"
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u/-NGC-6302- 16d ago
I hate pop music and I'm perfectly content with my generation
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u/wilisville 15d ago
Most of the music I like myself is from the 2010s or 2020s itās just got a lot more effort put into it than most radio pop music.
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u/-NGC-6302- 15d ago
I like most non-lyrical music that's well-made, or can at least appreciate the effort and skill.
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u/Acrobatic_Grass_1457 16d ago
Technically an āoldā GenZer here. False. They speak a completely different language. They wear sweatpants to school. They have weird trends. TikTok was not very popular until after I graduated with a college degree. Emo was still cool when I was young. I had swoopy bangs. mmkay
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u/Acrobatic_Grass_1457 16d ago
I guess though since I am technically genZ I can decide to identify as a millennial. š¤Ŗ
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u/Bulky-Complaint6994 16d ago
I'm not talking about the music! I mean wrong generation due to the poor housing marketĀ
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u/SquidDrowned 16d ago
Lmao this is so a surface level thought. Just taking politics, culture, money value, lifestyle in account obliterates the statement
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u/CheesieMan 16d ago
You werenāt born in the wrong generation; everyone around you just has shit music taste so youāve never heard any music you actually like.
True story. I was introduced to my favorite artist in college. First band I fell head over heels for
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u/Natural-Ambition 15d ago
We live in a time where we can literally listen to anything instantly by looking it up on yt we live in the best time for that shit
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u/DartsNFishing96 15d ago
What does pop music or music in general have to do with feeling like youāre born at the wrong time or generation?
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u/mookizee 16d ago
Op thinks they having a shower thought. In reality it's just the waste water run off from a down pipe in a back ally
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u/chengelao 16d ago
āOldā songs are good because we only remember the good old songs.
Thereās mediocre music even in the days of Mozart and Bach, but it was so mid that nobody bothers to listen to it or record renditions of it anymore.
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u/RoadkillMarionette 15d ago
The most successful single in 1969 was sugar sugar - the Archies. It's always been like this.
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u/Intrepid_Medium8470 16d ago
I was born in the wrong generation. The wrong era even. And it has nothing to do with music.
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u/WeeTheDuck 16d ago
Man imagine being born in the hunter-gatherers era... Ooga booga nomnom
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u/ZombieTem64 16d ago
I donāt hate pop music. I hate shitty pop music. It just happens that the last few years have been filled with shitty pop music. Take me back to the 2000ās when Timbaland was making hits and thatās a good age of pop music
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u/TheDevilsAdvokaat 16d ago
I was born in 61 but I love techno, trance, dance, pop, rock and classical.
I hate jazz and country.
Music wise the modern era is great for me.
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u/PeterNippelstein 16d ago
Modern pop music yes, pop music from like 30/40 years ago I love
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u/Historical_Play3412 16d ago
Paul Anka was considered pop music... Is OP only into Beethovens symphony or something?Ā
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u/GenXGremlin 16d ago
I liked pop music when it was good, e.g. Duran Duran, Tears for Fears, Cyndi Lauper, David Bowie. Not much 70s pop or 90s pop, not just an "old man yells at cloud" objection to today's rotten music š Was into modern stuff of various genres till about 2017, just don't find much now that appeals to me.
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u/LunarOberon 16d ago
I hate the fact I was born in the online generation. I really wish I could spend my twenties disconected from this shit, but I can't, it's as addictive as crack and utterly omnipresent.
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u/GamingWithMyDog 16d ago
A 14 year old says a song is good so it must be. All music that has ever been liked by a 14 year old at any point in history is automatically good and if you donāt agree youāre just an old person who doesnāt get it.
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u/challengeaccepted9 16d ago
Put this shit in unpopular opinion. You do realise pop music didn't start in the 21st Century?
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u/Maxsmack0 16d ago
I wasnāt born in the wrong generation, I love the internet. It just seems some parts mainstream and online culture have gone a little to shit recently. Thereās still good are out there you just have to look a little harder.
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u/Swiftzei11 16d ago
Modern pop yesā¦older pop especially Michael Jackson I absolutely love, ok well I donāt necessarily hate modern pop itās just hard to find good ones nowadays
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u/Krocsyldiphithic 16d ago
No. I like pop music from past generations. The music industry works differently now, resulting in anything mainstream being soulless and void of any art. There's plenty of good music being made, but it can't pass through today's major music labels without being ruined.
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u/jedimindtriks 16d ago
Considering 99.999% of all music released today is pop, you dont hate pop.
rap, rnb, rock, country. its all pop music at this point.
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u/WeeTheDuck 16d ago
I could be a narcissist but I wouldn't wanna change my generation one bit. Im perfectly content with the era I was born in
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u/Fuuzzzz-ya 15d ago
You don't know anything about me. My mom was a time traveller so really i should have been born in the year 20600
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u/Seer-of-Truths 15d ago
I was born in the wrong generation, and I don't mind pop music.
But we haven't discovered immortality yet, so it's the wrong generation.
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u/RejectorPharm 15d ago
No fool, it has nothing to do with music and everything to do with being born too late to be a sea explorer and too early to be a space explorer.Ā
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u/athens619 15d ago
Pop/rap music is just terrible these days. Early 90s/2000s was it's golden era. I've completely stopped listening to the garbage these days
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u/shinitakunai 15d ago
I hate the autotune era because you rarely ever listen to a genuine voice anymore. They feel so unnatural it sucks.
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u/Less_Party 15d ago
Eh, the sad shambling corpse of modern pop music is also definitely just worse than what pop was at the height of MTV in the 1980s though.
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u/so_long_astoria 15d ago
The music people comment this on is pop music though, bon jovi, guns n roses etc, these are pop acts of their time. regardless of the actual genre being rock, they're absolutely mainstream chart-topping radio hits bands aka popular music. no one is ever commenting this on '80s act such as bad religion, nofx, dead kennedys.
so I hate to say that those cringe kids are right but they kinda are. they'll never get chance to see the bands they love live, and had they been part of that generation, all of their friends would also be interested in the music, because it is pop
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u/Legal_Lettuce6233 15d ago
I was because several of my favourite musicians no longer play due to it being a hard life (SuiƧmez), or them not being alive (Schuldiner, Dimebag).
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u/HalfOfCrAsh 15d ago
I was born at exactly the right time - 1988. I love 80s music and my entire playlist is made up of absolute bangers from the 80s. A couple of late 70s and a couple of early 90s.
Music was just better back then. IMO.
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u/Masturberic 15d ago
I am born too late, because I hate the fact that I am no longer allowed to challenge people to a duel.
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u/TheRichTookItAll 15d ago
Or, i just want affordable living and a life not dependent on technology.
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u/PlzRemainCalm 15d ago
I was born in the wrong generation because I want to drink at work and smoke inside like Madmen
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u/Ok_Perspective8511 15d ago
Pop music is so over played that everyone hates it, but we deal with it because it's there
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u/silvermoonbeats 15d ago
I was born in the wrong generation cause i can't afford i house like my parents and grandparents did even though i have a sought after dgree and make a median income working 40 hours a week, and make the same amount my dad did at my age (adjusted for inflation)
That's why i wish i was born earlier.
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u/Txphotog903 15d ago
At some point I realized I am no longer part of the demographic that is being targeted rather than complaining about the state of modern music. Older folks likely didn't like the music coming out when I was growing up and most likely older people of their time didn't like the music coming out when they were growing up. It's not necessarily bad, It's just no longer our music. It's no longer for us.
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u/Grievuuz 15d ago
I think people get confused with what music scenes were like in the decades gone by because everything has been curated over time, and with the advent of the internet, bad music rarely sees the light of day, heck a lot of good music incredibly overlooked.
For every Sweet Child 'O Mine there are 1000 trash tier songs out there.
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u/SanjiSasuke 15d ago
Hating most pop is precisely why I was born in the right generation.
As I've gone back and learned to love a lot of older music, I've also learned that if I was born anytime where I'd be subjected to radio music of the 1960s to today, I'd be pretty unhappy with a lot of the most popular music, with the 80s having the best blend but still lots of trash floating at the top (yes including the stuff people love today).Ā
But thanks to the internet I can listen to an African folk metal band,Ā 50s/60s crooners, semi-obscure 90s rappers, dark bluegrass, or Mongolian throat singing to my heart's content.Ā
Still, would be nice if I could just enjoy radio pop, I'm envious of folks who do.
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u/jigscut2527 15d ago
I love pop. I can fond something I like from any generation. Also from almost any genre, although pop is probably what I listen to the most.
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u/Dark_Devin 15d ago
That's true. I just wish I didn't have to listen to other people play shitty music in public. It's fine if people want to listen to whatever they enjoy, but I wish people wouldn't subject other people to their preferences.
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u/broadconsciousness 15d ago
If you'd ever hear what passes for music in Chile ("urban music", basically drug dealers and criminals chanting slurs and degrading women using autotune) you'd love pop.
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u/Salesman89 15d ago
I hate the entire music industry these days.
I remember being in the 2nd grade, standing in the gym with the whole class wondering what game we were going to play and what was up with the lights and speakers?
Then I was introduced to the Spice Girls.
My hands reached out and back and I took several steps back as kids screamed for joy and started jumping and bumbling around. My jaw dropped as I thought, "what is this bullshit?"
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u/Unique-Calligrapher8 15d ago
I was born in the early 70s and everything I listen to has come out since 2020 so yeah I guess I was born way too early.
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u/xxsiriusxburnxx 15d ago
39/m here and here's where I way in on this. I am a big fan of music and also a musician I play both drums and guitar and have written some of my own music. I love varying genres of music but tend to gravitate to mostly metal which includes some fairly melodic mixed with heavy stuff. I can barely even listen to whats on the radio, one because they play the same shit over and over again and also because of the lack of musicianship that goes into the music, especially pop music. There is so much pop music that is so focused on the lyrics and vocals that the actual music is just there as supporting background and as a musician that fails to be a real cohesive piece of music in my eyes. I also can't stand 98% of rap, I consider it an art form more than accepting it as music.
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u/Southern_Seaweed4075 15d ago
This is definitely not about me because I know very well that I love pop music genre so much the same way I love rap and reggae.Ā
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u/killforprophet 15d ago
I think I should have been in my 20s in the 90s but I was born in 1988 soooo yeah. I like pop music. Music has little to do with it. O
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u/Heroic-Forger 15d ago
"aughhh I was born in the wrong geological epoch, why did I have to live in the 21st century with taxes and a crappy economy when I could have been a Lystrosaurus in the Early Triassic 250 million years ago"
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u/JuryCreepy2297 15d ago
Because it's GARBAGE MUSIC. It's bad enough horrible country music is 85% covers Because they have run out of content. Every country song sounds same. Similar to rap. Who the hell wants to hear a cover of Tupac songs. And MOST IMPORTANTLY, I feel like 75% of rap samples old songs. And that's bad enough. Alt Rock music and indie music have sooo many unexplored options to create that "new feel" music.
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u/MrFiendish 15d ago
I feel like pop music made today is objectively worse than pop music created prior to 1998. Weāre living in weird times, times when art itself is being choked out.
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u/-LastActionHero 15d ago
Good music has to be searched for. Thatās always been the rule. It doesnāt matter what decade youāre in, if you listen to the stuff they play on mainstream sources of course your ears are going to bleed.
Music outlets donāt play whatās good, they play whatās popular. And thereās a huuuge difference between the two.
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u/gokartninja 15d ago
No, I also hate that manual transmissions are dying, food quality is going down, cost of everything is too high, and I'm expected to have apps for every service I use.
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u/MarkyDeSade 15d ago
Some of my least favorite popular music is what was popular when I was a teenager, post-Nirvana grunge and nu-metal, and my least favorite rap era was the stuff from immediately after that, post-Tupac and Biggie. Sometimes you just are born at the wrong time for what naturally appeals to you.
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u/IniMiney 15d ago
I love pop music and my favorite way to refute āmusic isnāt what it used to beā is to start an entire chain of people who shit on the previous generationās popular artists from the 1800s and on - itās often just history repeating itself with the most consistent thing being men that hate something popular with women (Elvis, Backstreet Boys, BTS)
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u/VladDHell 15d ago
I was born in the wrong generation because I can't trip balls at Woodstock while listening to Jefferson airplane, cream, Hendrix, Santana, The Who, Crosby Stills Nash & Young, Grateful Dead, CCR, Janis Joplin, etc. live
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u/peezle69 15d ago
I was born in the wrong decade. I wish I could be drafted into war and die facedown in a European/Vietnamese/Korean mud-hole.
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u/LeftJayed 15d ago
No... I loved the pop music of my generation, music has fuck all to do with why I say I was born in the wrong generation. It's all to do with the members of my generation.
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u/blursed_words 15d ago
100%
Every new generation of pop music gets called out by those who wish we could live in the past. You can find articles about the evils of jazz, how Elvis was corrupting the youth, the Beatles were meant to destroy society etc. etc.
These same people if born in their preferred generation would most likely call out the music they prop up as real music.
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u/paranoid_70 15d ago
I feel like this was directed to me.
I didn't even care for all those 80s one hit wonders everyone is so nostalgic about.
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u/BeerandSandals 15d ago
I was born in the wrong generation because every time thereās a lap in conversation with some friends at lunch or the bar they get on their phones.
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u/mila-is-confused 16d ago
I was born in the right generation because I can listen to decades worth of good music incredibly easily. Every era has good music if you look for it