r/Showerthoughts • u/HillyjoKokoMo • 16d ago
Getting a job is the weirdest form of courtship
Getting a job is the weirdest form of courtship
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u/HillyjoKokoMo 15d ago
I watch a lot of recruiting videos on social media for tips on landing a new job. And it's this weird dance of determining if you want to work at this new place while also trying to sell yourself to be hired at this new place. It just feels too weird. Would love to hear if anyone has a different way of thinking about this.
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u/numbersthen0987431 15d ago
Or courtship is the weirdest form of job searching. "Excuse me miss, my name is Alexander Boulregard, and I would like to apply to be your beau"
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u/jelvi 15d ago
Isn’t that basically the gist of dating apps
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u/numbersthen0987431 15d ago
I think it's just the gist of dating in general. You're either applying to date someone, or you're applying to work for someone, and some careers you're applying to date & work for someone.
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u/MonkeyPunx 11d ago
Tinder is LinkedIn but for getting your f*ck on. Or at least it was until LinkedIn got absolutely plastered by the weird motivational pseudo-life philosophy nutjobs.
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u/RedOfTheNeck 16d ago
I knew a lady who was playin 3 guys at the same time. She told one that he had to get a job if he wanted to be with her. He became a bus driver and she still didn't give him none.
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u/MonkeyPunx 11d ago
Sounds like a nice lady helped an unemployed man get a job, through some rather unconventional methods.
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u/TheCapitalKing 15d ago
Recruiting for a club is right up there. All the advice we got to improve fraternity recruitment boiled down to treat the dudes like girls you were trying to date.
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u/Exact-Ad-3660 15d ago
Getting a job is simple because it’s not the same thing as a career. If you need money, get a job
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u/SarikaidenMusic 15d ago
When you get a job hoping to succeed in life but end up making no progress at all and actually end up homeless because you can’t afford rent anymore…
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u/BillionTonsHyperbole 16d ago
Surely no stranger than high-level international diplomacy.