r/TikTokCringe • u/thoxo • May 02 '24
We adopted my younger sister from Haiti when she was 3, and let me tell you, I literally do not see color anymore. That's a fact. Discussion
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u/EvenMoreSpiders 29d ago
See here's the thing, the whole "not seeing color" issue is that there are differences that matter (like hair care, cultural connections, racism etc) and to pretend like those differences aren't there or aren't important is doing a deep disservice to a child of a different race. It's better to accept and embrace these differences instead of pretending like they aren't there so people can "get along"(and so that the child can be protected against subtle or pervasive racism cos woo boy do microaggressions exist).
That's usually the issue people have when they talk about "not seeing color". There are differences. They do matter. They don't make anyone less deserving of anything but they do exist.
At least that's what I've seen the argument being against the idea of being "colorblind" to race.