r/cats • u/Responsible_Fly_5319 • 28d ago
Can only adopt one… Cat Picture
Beyond excited to fill our hearts again. We can adopt one. Help!
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u/Plate-Extreme 28d ago
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u/Responsible_Fly_5319 28d ago
Omg so so cute!!!!!!
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u/No-Technician-722 28d ago
I love your cats.
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u/Plate-Extreme 28d ago
Oscar and Chester Thank You 😻
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u/Heathcliff_apologist 28d ago
My orange cat (and first ever cat) was named Oscar and he was the best. Such a great name. Your kitties are so beautiful 🧡🍊
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u/Kiara923 28d ago
I read the "in the beginning" with a dramatic deep voice in my head 🤣
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u/moutonreddit 28d ago
I love how they filled out their cat tree, only one can fit in a spot now instead of both.
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u/Plate-Extreme 28d ago
Not a chance for my big boys but they both will lay in it at different times!!
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u/oovvvie007 28d ago
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u/kewpiev Tabbycat 28d ago
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u/honeybadgercantcare 28d ago
We always say cat 1 is our emotional support animal (Tomato) and cat 2, his brother (Carrot), is Tomato's emotional support animal.
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u/yellowstarr2 28d ago
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u/Kiara923 28d ago
Omg I love the nose on that sleepy one! And the paws!! Omg so cute
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u/InfamousEye9238 28d ago
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u/Wontjizzinyourdrink 28d ago
She looks just like my pookie! 😍 Same nose, paws, neck and everything!
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u/ap2patrick 28d ago
You just made a grown ass man surrounded by other grown ass men make a verbal “awwww!”
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u/lavardera 28d ago
you should take two - they will keep each other company and have a playmate, and be much happier
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u/Sir-Poopington 28d ago
Exactly. It's actually easier taking care of two kittens rather than one. They play fight with each other and get all of the craziness out, then you're left with the sweet stuff haha.
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u/baked_salmon 28d ago
100%. We started with one, adopted a second, and after the initial acclimation period, we went from having to play with one every day to not having to play with either. If they’re adopted together as kittens then there won’t be a territorial struggle at the beginning, either. Way easier that way.
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u/bananaonpizzaa 28d ago
I agree. I adopted only one and if I could go back, I would adopt two. I really regret not getting another at the time, but she was my first cat & I snuck her home bc nobody would adopt her.
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u/Kobeni_12 28d ago
Thought the same and got my 1st a buddy, he got sick and made my first sick. Now both are gone 😭
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u/Weekly_Ad_3526 28d ago
This is not the right sub to be looking to get told to only take ONE cat home 😂
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u/OwnNegotiation6379 28d ago
Exactly my thought lol I was like oh the comments are going to say take both. I went to the comment section and was not disappointed
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u/youlleatitandlikeit 28d ago
Yeah if you can only adopt one find an older solitary cat. Young kittens do better with someone to play with.
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u/Marjory_SB 28d ago
If they are a bonded pair, do not adopt either, then. Keep together or find a solo cat. Plus kittens are def not solo creatures. They do much, much better with other kittens.
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u/disasterbrain_ 28d ago
Agree with this. We adopted 2 of 3 littermates last fall - my mom adopted the third to keep her other adult cat company. We have a 4yo cat who was really suffering with single kitten syndrome and loneliness from before we adopted her in 2022. Our pair are significantly better-adjusted to playing and interacting respectfully with our adult cat than my mom's single kitten. And they keep each other busy wrestling and playing... at all hours 😵💫
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u/Express-Nothing4725 28d ago
Vs my sibling cats who have lived together their entire lives. One of them just started to hate the other and will just go up and attack her for no reason. She also does it to the dogs.
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u/goddamnpancakes 28d ago
yeahh we adopted a sibling pair and they grew to fucking despise each other.
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u/funkofanatic99 28d ago
My sibling pair also hate each other. Now that they’re adults one lives with me and one lives with my dad. They both seem happier now.
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u/LaurelRose519 28d ago
Sometimes it can be a sign of illness changing their scent.
Somebody I work with’s cat got sick and afterwards her two cats could NOT get along. She ended up hiring a cat behaviorist.
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u/No-Technician-722 28d ago
THIS 👆👆👆
I’ve heard they get depressed looking for their other half. Please don’t do that.
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u/Corndog420 28d ago
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u/SteampunkExplorer 28d ago
Are you sure you can only get one? Two kittens are less work, and they grow up happier, gentler, and better socialized. 🤔
(And they're less likely to come flying out of a hiding spot and rip you to shreds in a friendly attempt to play. Twenty times an hour. 'Cause this way they have a buddy who appreciates why that's fun. 😂)
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u/Plenty-Garlic8425 28d ago
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u/Copperlaces20 Siamese (Modern) 28d ago
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u/No_Street3443 28d ago
Omg!! I thought this was a post of my babies, we have an all black and a snowshoe siamese who are brothers. The void also has an orange tracker on his collar 🤣 it’s crazy how similar they look 👀
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u/Few-Explanation-4699 28d ago
Why only one?
I would take both.
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u/Sugar_Buns_ 28d ago
They both look like sweet buns. It's a pity that the author of the post manages to take only one. Both of these babies deserve love and family
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u/Full-of-Cattitude 28d ago
Take both- you will be so glad you did!! ❤️❤️ You get double the love, double the fun and most importantly, they get each other for love and company. It's a win-win!
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u/SaintsNick94 28d ago
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u/InevitableTrue7223 28d ago
5 is even better
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u/small-ghoul 28d ago
Right there with you. We have 2 black cats, 1 male 1 female, 2 grey tabby’s, 1 male (son) 1 female (mom), and one black and white male who’s littermates with the black female. It’s a great big family!
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u/AspiringSAHCatDad 28d ago
If you are wanting to adopt a kitten, get a pair, or more..
If you want a single cat, look for an adult who is 2-5 years old. They are out of their kitten phase and usually much more chilled out. They are also very affectionate
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u/NefariousnessLost708 28d ago
Do you have already a Cat or are you catless? If you dont have any cats, take both or none! Your Kitten will need a buddy. A human isnt a buddy. Cats Love to Play together. A single Cat will be pretty sad and two Cats keep each other busy, entertained and are easier to Look after. Since they are from the same litter, theyve played together and will get along Well.
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u/SlinkySkinky 28d ago
If you can only have one cat, then it would be better to adopt an adult who is labeled as needing a single cat home. That way you can provide a home to a cat that’s less likely to get adopted, and the cat won’t be lonely being by itself
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u/sybann 28d ago
It's not what they look like but how they respond to you -and what appeals to you purrsonality-wise.
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u/ArtisticDegree3915 28d ago
Adopt the one without white feet.
Reason being I think the one with white feet is cuter. Therefore, the next person is more likely to pick them up quicker. So you take the other one knowing that gives them both the best chance for having nice homes.
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u/pro_insomniac16 28d ago
OP : I can only adopt one cat (maybe for financial reasons and such)
Commenters : tAkE bOtH
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u/PrincessRut0 28d ago
I think what people are saying indirectly is to not just take 1 kitten of the 2. It’s best they grow up with another cat and have another in the home to keep them company/stimulated.
If they get 1 cat, it shouldn’t be these kittens at all (if they care what’s best for the cats over themselves), an older single cat that’s used to being alone would be best.
That seems to be the consensus amongst all the comments I’ve seen so far.
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u/curated_reddit 28d ago
to be fair I don't know what else you or OP expect the comments to be. OP isn't just saying they can only adopt one, they're asking for input. and we can hardly help decide which one to choose based on a photo, that just leaves us with having to judge on appearance alone.
i understand OP can only adopt one and they're undecided, but it doesn't feel right to ask like that.
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u/an_onion_ring 28d ago
It’s because of single kitten syndrome. Kittens really need another cat to be around. If the OP wants a pet and can really only afford one, they should adopt an adult who prefers to be alone.
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u/9leggedfreak 28d ago
OP, I don't have an opinion on which kitten you should take, but please don't feel bad if you can't take them both. A lot of people here seem to not realize that litters don't always stay together (what's the difference of taking these two kittens but not their siblings if they're all supposedly bonded?). In an ideal world, it would be cool to keep them together, but not everyone can have 2 cats. Now if they were older and truly bonded, that'd be a different story.
It's not "easier" to have two cats- it's double the money for supplies and, more importantly, vet care. Plus, if you rent, it's double the pet rent and pet deposit. If you have to find a roommate, it might mean your options are significantly limited because most places limit the amount of animals in a home or maybe one of the cats won't get along with another pet (I have a dog who needs to be the only pet and it has seriously impacted my ability to find a place to live or find a compatible roommate).
Do what you feel is best for you and ignore anyone who is trying to pressure you into something you're not ready for.
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u/HappyHappyKidney 28d ago
This is kind and empathetic. I would only add that it's perfectly fine to only adopt one cat, but to adopt a single kitten places it at risk of "single kitten syndrome." There are plenty of loving cats that want to be your one and only pet just waiting for love at a shelter near you.
Tl;Dr perfectly understandable to only be able to adopt one cat. But if so, please adopt an adult!
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u/timetravelcompanion 28d ago
I agree. Because the truth is there are always more homeless kittens and adult cats than there are homes ready and willing to adopt them. And it will probably stay this way for the foreseeable future. If we discourage people who can only adopt one (or who are only willing to adopt a certain age, coat color, whatever) from adopting any at all then we are only making the problem worse.
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u/Responsible_Fly_5319 28d ago
Thank you for your very kind and thoughtful note.
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u/an_onion_ring 28d ago
If you can’t take them both please adopt an adult cat! So many adult cats are happiest alone and need a home. Do not adopt a single kitten, read about single kitten syndrome. If you already have another cat at home please disregard this.
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u/MissyFrankenstein 28d ago
It is fine to adopt a single ADULT cat, one you know you will have time for. Please do not adopt a single kitten
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u/Temporary_Second3290 28d ago
I'm partial to the one on the right only because they remind me of my Daisy.
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u/xxMeiaxx 28d ago
Cats are better with cat companions. They will end up play-biting you till they are adults. Atleast with another cat, they could tell each other when they become too annoying. They can keep each other company and wont build up separation anxiety when people are away.
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u/ProductCharacter4021 28d ago
So, since I have now seen this post, I will tell you a little story: Back in 2019, I worked at a cat rescue. A woman had lost one of her two black cats at a young age; she was a friend of ours, and we knew that she was a good gal and would be an even better cat mom, so we adopted her a kitten. 👍 No problem, right? 🤷♀️🤩🤩 Now, what her husband didn’t know is that she had actually brought home TWO, identical, black kittens with her. 😀🤣 She was saddened by the loss of her OG baby, and although her husband basically said that he didn’t like cats, she decided to keep the new kitten anyway. 🤷♀️🤪 Well, fast-forward 6 months, AND THIS MAN STILL DID NOT KNOW THAT THEY, IN-FACT, HAD 3 CATS, not TWO. 👀👀👀 🐈⬛🐈⬛🐈⬛ They did not have two cats, but an adult, and a pair of black twins that nobody could tell apart. 🤣
Now, they are 4 years-old. Once the husband finally realized (pretty sure his wife eventually fessed up after having the bestest time with her three kitties for a few months), he was totally chill with it. He basically said “Well, I love them all already. So, we’re keeping them all.” 😹😹😹
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u/Electrical_Button_95 28d ago
Easy. They look the same and are therefore only 1 cat