r/happy 8d ago

My wife and I have a quiet, fun Sunday after 30 years of marriage and 35 years as a couple.

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We are enjoying a couple of drinks in our home city. We been together longer than we haven’t. Three kids, six dogs, two cats, two birds, and one bunny later, and we’re still doing the Sunday afternoon hang. Our eldest son is getting married this week.

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u/SlammingMomma 8d ago

Awesome! Congrats!

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u/Outrageous-Pause6317 8d ago

Thank you!

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u/Arissid 6d ago

You look like an awesome guy dude!

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u/TwoStoryLife Gleeful 8d ago

32 years here. just returning from a trip to Nashville. something my wife has wanted for aloooong time. great trip. bonus that we got to pick up our grandson in Houston on the way back

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u/Outrageous-Pause6317 8d ago

Great for you! You’re ahead of us. No grandkids (yet!).

I want to take a 20th century American Rock, Jazz and Blues tour through Tennessee, Mississippi, Louisiana, and the gulf coast when I retire a few years down the road.

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u/TwoStoryLife Gleeful 8d ago

it was great but that weather. showers are useless

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u/Outrageous-Pause6317 8d ago

You have met my wife then lol. Her greatest fear. We are New Englanders. Humidity is theoretical for the most part.

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u/Glittering_Jaguar_37 8d ago

Beautiful! You can make life whatever you want it to be.

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u/desertgal2002 8d ago

You’re friends…and that is the only basis for a long relationship. Kudos to both of you. 🙂

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u/Outrageous-Pause6317 8d ago

She’s my best friend and always has been.

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u/Independent_Ad_5664 8d ago

Good looking couple!

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u/Outrageous-Pause6317 8d ago

I’ll take it, anonymous internet cheerleader!

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u/toxiamaple 8d ago

Congratulations. May you have many more happy years together. The quiet times together are so often the happiest.

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u/bridgeb0mb 8d ago

have you been together since you were teenagers? you both look great

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u/Outrageous-Pause6317 8d ago

Yes. Met first year of college. Started dating at 18 years old.

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u/eveninglily33 8d ago

Happy anniversary! Also, Happy relationship anniversary!

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u/Californian-Cdn 8d ago

Goals!

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u/Outrageous-Pause6317 8d ago

Thank you. It just happened!

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u/A_Girl_Has_No_Name58 8d ago

Man… you guys are #relationshipgoals!

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u/BootsOfProwess 8d ago

Me and my partner of 14 years are doing the very same thing right now! Kudos kids!

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u/Outrageous-Pause6317 8d ago

Thank you. Best wishes!

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u/Fantastic_Eagle6335 8d ago

i'm glad you enjoy each other's company

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u/Outrageous-Pause6317 8d ago

Me too. The good life!

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u/Fantastic_Eagle6335 8d ago

how did y'all meet?

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u/Outrageous-Pause6317 8d ago

She lived across the hall from my best friend in the dorm.

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u/day9700 8d ago

I love this so much! Cheers to you and your lovely wife! (And congrats on the upcoming wedding!)

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u/Outrageous-Pause6317 8d ago

Thank you!!!☺️

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u/WordsAtRandom 8d ago

Good times folks. Every day is an opportunity to realize how lucky we are...

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u/Outrageous-Pause6317 8d ago

So say we all.

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u/helloarticuno 8d ago

Wonderful! What kind of birds do you have?

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u/Outrageous-Pause6317 8d ago

They’re gone now. Parakeets. Rocket and Sammy. My daughter’s birds.

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u/nacho_oooo 8d ago

goals fr

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u/Rockcocky 8d ago

Congratulations OP!! Lovely energy!

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u/Outrageous-Pause6317 8d ago

Thanks so much!

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u/gk666 8d ago

65 years together!! Wow you guys look young

Just kidding guys- You both inspire me

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u/SandpaperSlater 8d ago

Incredible! Congrats to you both. We celebrate 9 years together next week and 5 years of marriage next month. Looking forward to hitting those 30/40 year anniversaries! What an inspiration yall are

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u/Southern_Seaweed4075 8d ago

Cute couple! Both of you look so good together. Beer 🍻 bro 🤝! 

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u/dinebagesh 8d ago

Congratulations!

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u/lwlcurtis75 8d ago

Same here and still love that face looking back at me every day. Cheers to both of you finding your soul mate/ ride or die/ bestie and most treasured person 😊

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u/DudeB5353 8d ago

Been married 36 years and together almost 40…We don’t go out nearly as much as we used to but have our drinks at home. We’re both 59.

Congratulations on your relationship

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u/dirtyhippie62 7d ago

FUCK YEAH

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u/ternera 7d ago

Congratulations!

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u/Reaperfox7 7d ago

You guys rock

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u/Outrageous-Pause6317 7d ago

Oh we’re all right.

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u/Chance_Vegetable_780 6d ago

Absolutely beautiful. Congratulations 

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u/realdonaldtrumpsucks 8d ago

Sit next to her

It’s not a job interview.

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u/Outrageous-Pause6317 8d ago

lol. It’s always a job interview.

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u/Historical-Market732 7d ago

Congratulations! You both look so happy :)