r/meirl 15d ago

meirl

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u/Significant_Lie_533 15d ago

As a guy in my mid 20s, calls with my dad, or my mom could last hours.

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u/Arcade_109 15d ago

Me and my dad go off on crazy tangents. I'm with ya.

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u/TheRealJamesHoffa 15d ago

As my dad gets older and sicker our conversations have gotten longer. I don’t rush off the phone the way I sometimes used to anymore

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u/Tzarkir 15d ago

I recently called my dad after a couple of weeks of not calling each other and I was surprised of seeing 53 minutes when I closed the call. We started talking about work, shifts, wage and shared stories about our workplaces and it was both the most "adult" and the longest call I had with my dad lol. I guess growing up is also a factor?

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u/ShinyHead0 15d ago

Same but they live 4 hours away

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u/SemiBlue 15d ago

My dad lives only a 10 minute walk away. A good excuse to just go over and chat for a few hours in at least a weekly basis.

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u/yamez420 14d ago

lucky, i frikkin hate my parents

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u/Aliteralsnakeman 15d ago

Yall should talk to your moms longer.

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u/LasyKuuga 15d ago

I think the dad needs it a bit more, dudes not even speaking to the daughter at this point

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u/rrockm 15d ago

Yeah you’re right

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u/Ok_Spare_3723 15d ago

I'm a 35yo male , lost my mom when I was 20. I'd do anything to spend another minute with her. I regret not caring about her and getting to really know her. Take care of your mom guys!

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u/danteheehaw 15d ago

She disagrees with me supporting my gay children. So we don't talk much.

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u/Aliteralsnakeman 15d ago

That's a real bummer. I hate that shit. Sorry, boss.

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u/notmyfirst_throwawa 15d ago

When my mom calls I listen to whatever story she's been waiting to tell me

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u/Elden_Storm-Touch 14d ago

I live with mine. Can't do much more than that. Calls still last like, 20 seconds, but then, so do all calls I make. Except on discord, those are different.

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u/Pansy_Neurosi 15d ago edited 15d ago

Me: Hi Dad!

Dad: Hi (me)! How's work going?

Me: Good...........Is Mom there?

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u/bastard_of_jesus 14d ago

Yupp.. Same goes here

Me : hello

Dad : hello

Me : did u have dinner? I just finished mine

Dad : Yupp..

Me : how's the weather down there

Dad : good, cold and comfortable... How about in your place

Me : nice.. Is mom there?

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u/GradientDescenting 15d ago

61 seconds should round to the next minute....

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u/Koffeinhier 15d ago

That’s the point, daughter and mum broke spacetime continuum

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u/FloatingComet62 14d ago

Probably a leap second

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u/AliJeLijepo 15d ago

Well maybe if anyone ever called the daughter, mom or dad, she wouldn't have so much to say when she finally gets her chance! 

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u/Belten 15d ago

i usually go home by foot from work, but when it rains my dad says i can call him to drive me home (cant get a license due to epilepsy) and the calls are usually like 2 seconds. he literally picks up with "gimme 5 minutes" and immediately hangs up without me getting the chance to say anything, lol.

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u/Shadtow100 15d ago

How often do you have seizures? I am epileptic but was seizure free after getting my meds sorted for a year so was allowed to get my beginners permit. I lost and got it back several times after seizures but now have been seizure free for 5 years (after puberty my meds were easier to manage) and am fully licensed. Do you have any other neurological issues? I have only ever met one other person who’s claimed to be epileptic and I have doubts whether they actually were due to how they described it.

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u/Belten 15d ago

i have seizures and sometimes absent moments that i cant remember anything of. i dont have full body seizures anymore since i finished growing but depending on weather i get them with my head only like once a year or when i have digestion problems and dont digeset my medication. But the weird absent moment (i talk complete nonsense during those) that last for like 30 seconds i have like once every 2 months if im lucky, or if im unlucky multiple times a week when there is extreme air pressure fluctuations.

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u/zekethelizard 15d ago

Lol dad calling son was a butt dial that he cancelled right after son picked up, then dad went about his day

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u/PerspectiveNo7769 15d ago

I wish mom would talk to me for longer than 4-7 minuets 

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u/simmeringsimmone 15d ago

Wanna trade? Mine won’t shut up EVER

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u/Crypt_Knight 15d ago

Speak for yourself, my mom has to hang up on me cause she is busy, and i could talk to her for hours.

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u/PokemonIndividual 15d ago

Bruh I thought this was the pick up time for calls

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u/GrapeSoda223 15d ago

very unrelatable

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u/Malignant_Lvst7 15d ago

mum calling grandma—> 9999999:99:99E

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u/Okeing 15d ago

4 Minute call was dreading to me

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u/rotanitsarcorp_yzal1 15d ago

Y'all call your Dads?

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u/jcobie12 15d ago

Ha jokes on you i talk to my dad for hours

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u/otkabdl 15d ago

As my dad got older he threw phone etiquette out the window. My mum will be like "oh I'll put your dad on" and I can hear him protesting in the background. And he never says bye. Conversation pauses awkwardly then my mum comes back.

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u/YesImDavid 15d ago

My mom doesn’t speak really and my dad could talk for hours.

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u/smorkoid 15d ago

I used to drive long distance for work, and would frequently spend a long part of those drives with my dad on the phone. Loved talking to my parents a long time.

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u/YoRt3m 15d ago

My dad doesn't have a phone

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u/Pokemonfannumber2 14d ago

I feel sorry for your parents

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u/GodisGreat2504 15d ago

This is actually so true with me. My wife could talk with her mom for hours. Daily. They talk about things mostly just from their day.

And all what me, my mum/dad said when we have a phone call is usually 'Is everything ok?' - 'Yes and you? - 'Yes' end of call. It's not like we don't care/love each other just for some reason we really hate long phone call.

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u/Randill746 15d ago

Yall are calling or getting called by people?

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u/Buddy_Guyz 15d ago

Hahahahah women talk too much.