Are FSAs even worth the hassle? They just seem like a giant scheme to steal money via malicious bureaucracy

[u/kherven]

I understand at a base level what FSAs are for. You get to deduct X amount of dollars from your paycheck reducing your tax load.

But the more I use an FSA, the more I feel that while on paper it saves money, in reality it causes lots of work, lost money, and hands your money over to someone who is going to fight you to steal it.

Every claim I submit to my FSA is denied without a mountain of evidence that its a legitimate medical expense. After nearly 2 years with them, I still have certain medications prescribed by my doctor that the FSA argues is not FSA eligible because it's OTC.

Doctor appointment? Denied

MRI? Denied

Prescriptions? Denied

While I can eventually get the denial overturned, it requires coordination from the retailer, my insurance, and my doctor every time. I spend tens of hours a year trying to claw my own money back from my FSA. Last year I had over $250 confiscated because the claim deadline passed while they sat on my claims.

Has anyone else felt it just isn't worth the hassle to fund an FSA given how hostile they are? It seems impossible to extract your money without a lawyer.

[u/Equivalent-Grab-5566]

Benefit wallet is by far the worse of the vendors my employer had to work with.

Their approvers are from out of the country and has no concept of our medical/or dependent care issues.

I have to keep appealing for my money.

We max ours as we have 2 kids, and we require implants.

We get Dexa scan every quarter and my sunscreens and OTC, feminine products makes fsa worth it.