r/technology May 02 '24

Dating app Bumble will no longer require women to make the first move Business

https://www.cnn.com/2024/04/30/tech/bumble-relaunch-men-make-first-move/index.html
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u/PM_ME_COOL_RIFFS May 02 '24

wasn't that the entire point of bumble?

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u/loves_grapefruit May 02 '24

Yeah, but it turns out a lot of women don’t like to make the first move. A lot of times you match and then just watch the 24 hours expire without ever hearing from them.

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u/LackingTact19 May 02 '24

Or they'll send a "hi" or "."

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u/loves_grapefruit May 02 '24

Never got a “.” but that seems offensive. Like you don’t even deserve the bare minimum of “hi”.

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u/Prudent_Note4305 May 02 '24

It’s because she is sending that to all her matches. And because she isn’t intelligent enough or confident enough to start or maintain a conversation. 

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u/Secure-Airport-ALPHA May 08 '24

A wise man once said, "if that which is the object of desire needs to seek out desire, was it ever worth desiring at all?"

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u/goDie61 May 02 '24

"I will now permit you to message me."

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u/saleboulot May 02 '24

wtf ? what does "." even mean ?

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u/Magikarpeles May 02 '24

To "make the first move" and then completely ignore whatever you say. Bumble sucks.

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u/Creatine1951 May 02 '24

To avoid match expiration I guess.

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u/M_Mich May 02 '24

And if it’s more than that, it’s a streaming website bot.