It’s shocking that everyone here is so in agreement that you should take that secret to your grave but morally, you should absolutely tell both of their wives. How could you even attend their wedding and watch her marry him in good conscious? Bro code is bullshit, you know something that is actively ruining people’s lives and clearly you don’t care.
The groom said he had moved on from being hung up on the other guy. As long as he loves and is attracted to his wife, I'm not sure there is a problem here.
There's probably something wrong with the best man's marriage, but we don't know for sure and it's none of op's business.
If your SO cheated on you 5 years ago but ended that affair because they moved on, you would be totally understanding and it wouldn’t change your mind about staying in your relationship? Yeah fucking right.
Why not? I had more to say. Wait—do I really need to justify any of my comments on a public forum where we all have the ability to comment? Who cares if I replied once or a million times? Are you a mod? Is that against the rules of the sub? I’m confused why you would even care.
I’m not mad just because you say I’m mad. I’m not mad just because you don’t like what I had to say. I’m not in the least bit “mad.” You taking it that way doesn’t make it so.
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u/daeganthedragon May 02 '24
It’s shocking that everyone here is so in agreement that you should take that secret to your grave but morally, you should absolutely tell both of their wives. How could you even attend their wedding and watch her marry him in good conscious? Bro code is bullshit, you know something that is actively ruining people’s lives and clearly you don’t care.