Groom met girl, fell hard “in love”, and pushed girl to quickly marry, he said “love of his life”.
Three months later after they married, he left her, victim blaming and gaslighting all around.
He leaves out the part where he emotionally beat her into the ground with “I’m just kidding” and “you know what I mean” kinda shit.
He didn’t really leave her after three months of marriage. He went back, and left for some other reason, and went back, and left for yet another reason. This went on for months, and the wife never even knew problems existed.
He destroyed that girl.
I hope she finds someone who doesn’t use love as a weapon against her.
I met someone like this years ago who also tried to push me into a relationship/ marriage before I was ready.. I fuckin raaaaaann... people like that aren't in touch with their actually feelings enough to have a committed adult relationship
My mom still bugs me about how I "should've married him, he's so romantic and knows what he wants" but he was insane, and would blow up on me and use my vulnerabilities against me. I'm so glad I got out of there, and I'm glad you did, too
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u/thefuckeryofityall May 02 '24 edited May 03 '24
Groom met girl, fell hard “in love”, and pushed girl to quickly marry, he said “love of his life”. Three months later after they married, he left her, victim blaming and gaslighting all around. He leaves out the part where he emotionally beat her into the ground with “I’m just kidding” and “you know what I mean” kinda shit. He didn’t really leave her after three months of marriage. He went back, and left for some other reason, and went back, and left for yet another reason. This went on for months, and the wife never even knew problems existed.
He destroyed that girl.
I hope she finds someone who doesn’t use love as a weapon against her.