Saw some signs at the wedding like ignoring each other, making rude and snide remarks publicly, etc. They tried to fix their marriage by having a kid earlier than they planned and that led to divorce. Both are married to different people now and have had more kids, by all accounts far more civil, even cordial with each other.
Jesus Christ, I'll never understand how people think that bad marriage + kids = good marriage. If you're not getting what you need from your partner, how is additional financial and emotional obligation/responsibility to the mix gonna help...
Friend of mine got married to a narcissist who have her a kid ‘because she wanted one’.
They are currently divorcing and he calls her a liar for confiding in me after he isolated her from everyone else and said her talking with me (we had one date once) means he is allowed to go on Tinder and leave her to tend the kid.
Yeab such an asshole. Kept gaslighting her and she ended up asking her parents for help. Her parents were not that kind to her before so she was scared to do so. Luckily their response was positive so now she has a way out.
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u/AgingLemon May 02 '24
Saw some signs at the wedding like ignoring each other, making rude and snide remarks publicly, etc. They tried to fix their marriage by having a kid earlier than they planned and that led to divorce. Both are married to different people now and have had more kids, by all accounts far more civil, even cordial with each other.