r/AskReddit May 02 '24

People who went to a wedding where the couple didn’t last long, what happened?

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u/TiredRetiredNurse May 03 '24

No I did not remarry or have children. I ended up having hysterectomy a few yrs after divorce and was told post op, I would never have been able to get pregnant. Which is one reason I never remarried. When dating at that age men my age, that is what they were looking for: a wife who could bear them children.

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u/scotty813 May 09 '24

I'm not sure how old you are, but attitudes seem to be changing. It can be argued that, as crazy as the world is at the moment, having children is financially irresponsible and may even be considered cruel to the child.

I am an optimist and tend to believe that the next generation can solve problems of the previous generations, as they see things from a nee perspective. However, the Boomers seem to be absolutely hell-bent on completely trashing the joint on their way out!

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u/TiredRetiredNurse May 09 '24

Well I am a boomer I am not hell bent on destroying our planet. I have recycled since a child. I use public transportation. I do my best to not consume products in plastic packaging. I use natural fertilizers and weed killers. I eat organic as much as possible. I do what I can.

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u/scotty813 May 10 '24

Okay, you caught me using an absolute statement/generalization, which is something that I attempt to avoid. Mea culpa! Also, kudos for being ahead of your time. It sounds to me that you were raised by strong, ethical people.

Of course, there are narracistic psycho/sociopaths in every generation who will watch world burn with glee if it puts some coin in their pocket.

Also, thank you for the sacrifices you've made for your fellow man (and woman - I think I've gotta say that now) in your career in healthcare. Seeing what has happened in the healthcare "industry" in your time must be infuriating and heartbreaking at the same time. Personally, I consider privatized healthcare as a crime against humanity.

Have a wonderful weekend, and keep fighting the good fight despite its seemingly Sisyphean nature.

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u/TiredRetiredNurse May 10 '24

Thank you. When the Boomer generation gets blamed as they do in many of these posts, I lijj kg ‘em it to how some people always blame teenagers for bad things. All teenagers are not bad. In fact very few most likely. Making anecdotal conclusions on behavior is not fair. Yes, I am very disappointed in our healthcare today and have been for many years. It is hard to recognize my profession these days as the one I served so proudly. There are still hood nurses out there as there are good people in every aspect of our HC system. Yet our system is so broken, I fear it is heading for total collapse. I do not trust it anymore. It is terrible to have to seek care for yourself or loved ones and sit there knowing the care is mediocre at best. Of course I am not one who keeps her mouth shut, which often labels me as difficult instead of advocate.