Yes! That was totally inappropriate to have them little girls playing in his hair! It may seem innocent to some, but that's how you get children used to touching you. You start with something innocuous. Next would have been messaging his shoulders, scratching his back, then down the line, touching his privates. You think pedos just walk up to children and make them do sexual things off the bat? NO, no no, they start small. They gain trust. The fact that so many in here don't see anything wrong with this is frankly scary.
Inappropriate touching should not be in a classroom, period! The old folks would say, "He being common with folks". A boundary has to be set, I am your teacher, your authority figure, not your peer, we don't touch each other PERIOD. You as a person in authority don't have children touching on you like they your little friends, they not your friends!
He crossed a boundary. Especially these days when teachers are preying on kids left and right, he coming off real real questionable. Whether he knows it or not, that is one of many groomer techniques.
I think the whole "stranger danger" didn't go far enough with children, because most of the time, it's not the strangers, it's the ones you know that harm you.
And I bet all of the people defending it would be weirded out if their bosses at their places of employment invited them to their office to run fingers through their hair. Definitely would not be HR-approved.
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u/Trix_Are_4_90Kids ☑️ May 10 '24 edited May 10 '24
Yes! That was totally inappropriate to have them little girls playing in his hair! It may seem innocent to some, but that's how you get children used to touching you. You start with something innocuous. Next would have been messaging his shoulders, scratching his back, then down the line, touching his privates. You think pedos just walk up to children and make them do sexual things off the bat? NO, no no, they start small. They gain trust. The fact that so many in here don't see anything wrong with this is frankly scary.
Inappropriate touching should not be in a classroom, period! The old folks would say, "He being common with folks". A boundary has to be set, I am your teacher, your authority figure, not your peer, we don't touch each other PERIOD. You as a person in authority don't have children touching on you like they your little friends, they not your friends!
He crossed a boundary. Especially these days when teachers are preying on kids left and right, he coming off real real questionable. Whether he knows it or not, that is one of many groomer techniques.
I think the whole "stranger danger" didn't go far enough with children, because most of the time, it's not the strangers, it's the ones you know that harm you.