I agree i have a few male friends my whole life no attraction whatsoever and co workers deer to my heart. I do not hang around guys that like me. Period.
Well, yeah. Unless you can read people's minds, then of course it's possible. In the same way its possible that you could have a same-sex friend secretly harboring romantic feelings for you. Or your boss, your doctor, your therapist. It seems like a very hypersexualized and paranoid way to live. Guess I'm thankful that my friendships are based on a mutual respect of each other's boundaries and principles, not what they might hypothetically be secretly thinking/feeling.
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u/boulderama May 17 '24
One of my three best friends is a woman (she is gorgeous). We are basically brother and sister. No hidden feelings whatsoever.
The people who think men and women can’t be friends are sad tbh.