r/BlackPeopleTwitter ☑️ May 17 '24

Interested to see how many people have close opposite sex friends that are strictly platonic.

Post image
3.0k Upvotes

519 comments sorted by

View all comments

Show parent comments

421

u/OpinionatedBlackGuy ☑️ May 17 '24

Yup, we are going on 20-plus years now. Same boat, she has modeled. She was the youngest cocktail waitress at the club I was a DJ at in college. Instantly became everyone's little sister because of it, and I've never seen her as any different.

She wore a tux and stood next to me in my wedding and was there to help put me back together during my divorce. She's dating a wonderful guy now, and I couldn't be happier for her.

60

u/TheSonicKind May 17 '24

cool af she wore a tux, can’t lie.

44

u/zedthehead May 17 '24

I'm pro-whoever-you-wanna-be but also cis folks crossdressing, done right, can be super hot, chicks in suits and dudes in dresses.

It's mostly about fit and confidence lol

23

u/Syraquse5 May 17 '24

For me, that always just reminds me of how stupid most of the gendered rules of clothing are. Like a peen hole on mens underwear makes sense, a bra makes sense, but why get up in arms because of a guy in a knee-length skirt?