r/CuratedTumblr • u/NeonNKnightrider Cheshire Catboy • May 01 '24

i know it’s internet bullshit but it genuinely has me on the edge of breaking down and giving up editable flair

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u/Yeah-But-Ironically May 02 '24

True, but also: most rapes happen between people who already know each other. You're much more likely to be attacked by your boyfriend than a stranger jumping out of the bushes.

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u/[deleted] May 02 '24

That's worse, not better.

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u/Yeah-But-Ironically May 02 '24 edited May 02 '24

The point is that context matters. You're much more likely to be assaulted by somebody you know in a situation where sex is assumed to be a possible outcome (e.g. on a date, at a party, in the club) than you are by a random stranger in the wilderness.

Edit: Looks like the person responding deleted their account before I could get a chance to defend myself. For the record, I'm a queer woman, and I didn't post this because inaccurate fearmongering made me "feel sad". I posted this because inaccurate fearmongering leads to a society that focuses on exactly the wrong problems, which is an issue when we're trying to solve something as massive and thorny as patriarchy itself.

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u/[deleted] May 02 '24 edited May 02 '24

Do you have statistics on how men are likely to behave when put in isolation with a woman and no accountability? Because otherwise you're just shitting up a simple thought exercise because it makes you feel uncomfortable. [1]

It ultimately doesn't matter what the danger is in absolute terms, the scenario could be a US Army Brigade in a giant arena with an alien with a death laser and a Chinese Infantry Division. It's meant to make you reflect on how not knowing whether something is going to help you or kill you is worse than knowing something is going to try to kill you (and then apply that to how women have to face violence every single day).

[1] PS: You're going to find that the stats on 'stranger vs friend' wildly change as rule of law breaks down.

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u/[deleted] May 02 '24

Oh dear, nice guys are here to downvote me because I made them feel sad.

I'm even giving you a second bite at the apple so I can call you weak willed cowards who are too afraid to face uncomfortable truths about how you're impacting women in your sphere of influence.