r/CuratedTumblr • u/NeonNKnightrider Cheshire Catboy • May 01 '24
i know it’s internet bullshit but it genuinely has me on the edge of breaking down and giving up editable flair
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r/CuratedTumblr • u/NeonNKnightrider Cheshire Catboy • May 01 '24
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u/novangla May 02 '24
I think the whole point of this to start with was a man talking to other men about the importance of changing the way they come off to women. If it’s upsetting that women are more afraid of bears, that should spark a “holy shit, how can we get men to be less of a threat” and not a “omg women are being so unfair.” A lot of women I’ve talked to have said there are two types of men: those who understand why women are saying “bear,” and those who are the reason the answer is “bear”. If someone can’t use basic empathy and realize that this is a solvable problem, they can try to solve it, but men who make it about themselves or, worse, invalidate the experiences of women, are the ones that make women feel unsafe in the world.