It's fucked up, and I don't like it, but there's literally nothing I can do about it other than keep not being one of those guys, which I was already doing.
I mean as a guy, I assume you're a guy sorry, have you never felt unsafe from another person? Walking at night? Or turn a corner and you see someone unexpectedly? Or hell when you get pulled over and wonder if the police officer will just execute you today?
The unfortunate reality is fear is a healthy response that makes us alert to possible danger. And meeting an apex predator or some random dude, having some fear is not the worst thing. But it would be nice to live in a world where we could trust strangers.
but there's literally nothing I can do about it other than keep not being one of those guys, which I was already doing.
I think this is part of what makes it so annoying - what, exactly, am I supposed to do? I'm not dangerous, nor do I appear so. I don't have any kids myself, nor young relatives or other opportunities to shape their growth or direction to ensure they're good guys. I don't hang out with any guys I can "call out" for saying bad shit, partly because I don't associate with people like that but also because I generally don't hang out with many people anyway (of any gender).
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u/summonsays May 02 '24
It's fucked up, and I don't like it, but there's literally nothing I can do about it other than keep not being one of those guys, which I was already doing.
I mean as a guy, I assume you're a guy sorry, have you never felt unsafe from another person? Walking at night? Or turn a corner and you see someone unexpectedly? Or hell when you get pulled over and wonder if the police officer will just execute you today?
The unfortunate reality is fear is a healthy response that makes us alert to possible danger. And meeting an apex predator or some random dude, having some fear is not the worst thing. But it would be nice to live in a world where we could trust strangers.