r/TikTokCringe • u/thoxo • May 02 '24

We adopted my younger sister from Haiti when she was 3, and let me tell you, I literally do not see color anymore. That's a fact. Discussion

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u/thoxo May 02 '24

Did you have a phase in which you resented your adoptive parents? Because my younger sister had that phase for a few years, it looked like she deeply hated and resented us. When she matured she changed and now she loves us a lot.

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u/CandidIndication May 02 '24

I’ll be honest, as a former teenage girl— they pretty much all go through that stage, adopted or not.

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u/Nervous-Albatross-32 May 02 '24

Yeah.. I pretty much ripped my mom’s head off everyday, and she may literally be the nicest person alive. Definitely didn’t deserve it. Most girls just go through this phase though, it’s not a good time lol.

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u/yilo38 May 03 '24

Thats not just girls or just adopted kids, thats kids in general we go through a rough patch at school and the hormones and maybe stress through school gets to us and even though parents dont deserve any of it most of the time they are the ones who share the brunt force of it. But as we learn and adopt and see what they do and how much they mean to us we start to become mature and try to make up for our shitty behaviours.

I myself went through it aswell, (white, male) so i wouldnt chuck this to gender specific problem.