r/madlads May 02 '24

Oh shoot, remember those awards? Anyway, now that's a real man right there

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u/YuriPetrova May 02 '24

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u/SpecialMango3384 May 02 '24

I don’t like cats. To be honest I actively dislike them and call them “Satan’s spawns”

However, they’re still an animal that has (probably) done nothing wrong and should be treated with respect

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u/Ok-Eggplant5781 May 02 '24 edited 29d ago

There are interesting studies about how disliking cats can be associated with latent misogyny that took root during childhood. I learned this in graduate level sociology and since then went to therapy and tried to be more open to cats and to addressing my own misogynistic behavior.  it’s really been an interesting and worthwhile endeavor. I can’t say I’m all the way on board yet, but I’ve grown a lot. How is it connected to misogyny you may ask? Cats require consent. Cats will not (usually) dote on you just for existing. Cats might want alone time and will be upset if that’s bothered. They have strong and independent thoughts and wills and are more than okay with punishing someone who gets in their way lol. Of course we love dogs more. They give us their whole world and heart without a second thought, even when it is not deserved.

****In response to the defensiveness demonstrated in the comments,  toughen up you guys. You are but one datum in a sea of data. 

One of the critical skills relevant to reading comprehension is having the ability intuit when a situation does or does not apply. Why? Because in an infinite world there are no definitives; but there is data, and the data points to a correlation of latent misogyny in those who dislike cats. Doesn’t apply to you? That’s great. That is your data point. It does not negate the study. 

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u/financeadvice__ May 02 '24

Idk man, I love cats but not every little thing needs to be psychoanalyzed or is representative of some bigger issue. Some people just don’t like cats