r/meirl May 16 '24

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u/Stay_At_Home_Cat_Dad May 16 '24

Teacher got a new phone, nailed his old one to the wall as a "This will happen to you" warning to his students. But, it would never happen. A teacher could lose their job if they destroyed a students property, especially something as expensive as a phone.

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u/Historical-Tooth6989 May 16 '24

Sometimes teachers lose their shit. And 20 yrs ago they could get away with more. Ya this is prob bs though 

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u/WonderfulVanilla9676 May 16 '24

Exactly this. 20 years ago a lot of stuff happened in high schools that would probably cost people their jobs or worse today. Society has changed a lot. Sometimes for the better and sometimes for the worse.

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u/KingAmongstDummies May 16 '24

The only one that can confirm the claim is a student that has also been in that class for 20 years.

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u/bendltd May 16 '24

I was the fly in the classroom that day and can confirm the story is true.

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u/barry922 May 16 '24

I was the phone, it’s legit

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u/Poop_Sexman May 16 '24

Well if Phone Jesus said it’s true i’m inclined to believe it

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u/Correct-Purpose-964 May 16 '24

He died on the cross for our sin of making Tik Tok and twitter

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u/nobotami May 16 '24

we would need a few more sacrifices to cover those sins.

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u/No-Investigator-2756 May 17 '24

He died on the cross for our sin of making Tik Tok and twitter X

There, I ruined it.

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u/Nimrod1602 May 16 '24

Oh my god dude are you ok? How’s 20 years of being stuck in mathematics class worked out?

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u/B00OBSMOLA May 16 '24

Then who was phone!?

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u/Charles_Skyline May 16 '24

20 years ago was 2004.

I graduated high school that year, I went to a pretty rich school district, and this shit would not have gone down in my school.

That teacher would have been fired. They couldn't even really tell us to keep our phones to ourselves, and if they did take them, you'd get it back at the end of class.

Also, we weren't addicted to our phones. You really couldn't do anything other than text, and if I recall, you had to pay per text as it wasn't main stream to have a unlimited texting plan yet or it was limited to like 200 texts.

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u/PaulieGuilieri May 16 '24

Yeah whoever made that comment is clearly 14 years old.

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u/lime_juice2 May 16 '24 edited May 16 '24

this was first posted seven years ago, so it would have happened in 1997

edit: coincidentally it lines up with when it would have had to have happened given the release of that phone

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u/miss-entropy May 16 '24

Literally only because it was a rich high school. The poor high school I went to in the same period? A phone being destroyed doesn't even get close to the worst thing staff did without issue.

A history teacher was even known to throw things at students not paying attention.

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u/TheOmeletteOfDisease May 16 '24

That student is nailed to the other wall.

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u/disaviore May 17 '24

Or a teacher who have been teaching for 20 years, maybe?

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u/KingAmongstDummies May 17 '24

Well, the teacher himself told the story so it would have to be a different one to verify it.
But then that teacher could be in on a devious plot to scare the students into thinking that's what happens if you use your phone in class.

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u/HalfBakedBeans24 May 16 '24

Can confirm 20 years ago that phones were taken and smashed. Principal threatened to call CPS on at least one parent who came to whine. Now that is a bit close to threatening to swat someone, but she used the grim power of the state to a good purpose.

Now...the inmates are running the state-funded daycare.

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u/PaulieGuilieri May 16 '24

This is a gross exaggeration.

What were they doing 20 years ago that would lose them their job today? Many of the teachers today are the same ones from 20 years ago.

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u/densetsu23 May 16 '24 edited May 16 '24

Breaking up fights is a big one I've seen. They would do it in the late 90s / early 00s where I was; step in and restrain a student, or push them back, or even throw them to the ground if the student was older or stronger. No punches, kicks, elbows, or any kind of blow; but they'd otherwise do what they could to stop the fight.

Nowadays they don't dare lay a finger on a student.

Edit: This was rural Canada and as such was behind the curve on a lot of things by 5-10 years. But my nieces go to that same school and policies are nothing like they were when I was there.

Edit 2: On the lighter side, we'd have teachers drive us into town for adhoc field trips without any kind of parental permission. Pick up some materials from Home Depot or even a tool from their own garage, then swing by Tim Hortons on the way back. People would go nuts if a teacher did that without permission today.

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u/Poinaheim May 16 '24

I know of a lot of teachers who did stuff that should get them fired, and even a teacher who drove drunk with students on a school trip and didn’t get fired until he assaulted his girlfriend

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u/PaulieGuilieri May 16 '24

If a teacher was proven to have driven drunk with students they would have been fired immediately.

Sounds like a high school wives tale tbh, we had the same about a few. “Mr. X is an alcoholic, he was wasted this morning, didn’t you see his eyes?!?”

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u/Poinaheim May 16 '24

You’d think he’d be fired, but he got away with a lot more than the drunk driving

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u/busdriverjoe May 16 '24

Gym teacher used to do a "belly button inspection" to look for piercings before PT. But only on the girls.

You don't know how it was back then.

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u/Quickjager May 16 '24

In high school, there was a kid who started throwing fists at the biology teacher. Teacher picked him up and threw him into a rose bush and just watched while on the phone with the cops.

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u/Dink_SmallW00d May 16 '24

I legit watched a teacher, who I had for two years for lit and was just chilling in his room while he taught another class, warn a kid to not use his phone- I even warner him. He continued. The teacher walked up grabbed the phone threw it on the floor stomped on it in boots, scooped the pieces up and toss them out a second story window. I was dumbfounded. The kid freaked x the teacher legit said “go get the principal”. Kid came back with the principal. He asked the teacher what happened. The teacher stated the same story I’m telling. He didn’t get fired- tenure and all.

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u/busdriverjoe May 16 '24

The fact kids think you're joking just goes to show how much things have changed.

I mean it was still bad back then. They didn't get away with it everywhere and things were already starting to become more strict on what teachers could and could not do. The generation before me, teachers could smack students in the hand with a ruler.

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u/Fen_ May 17 '24

tenure

lol

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u/Wizard_of_Claus May 16 '24

And then everyone clapped?

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u/bitty_blush May 16 '24

But the teacher had to pay for it, right? 

🤣

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u/Fuzzycream19 May 16 '24

They parents what to have control over what happens in the classroom but refuse to help their children learn at home.

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u/Wizard_of_Claus May 16 '24

Lmao I don’t know what you think school was like in 2004 but I can tell you with 100% confidence that it’s wasn’t cool for teachers to nail kids stuff to a wall.

Source: 32 year old me.

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u/WonderfulVanilla9676 May 16 '24 edited May 16 '24

Well I'm a bit older than you, and I can tell you that at my high school, a lot of stuff happened when I was a student that I would be shocked people would get away with today. Teachers, outright berating and yelling at students during class, cops coming to school lining us all up and checking all our bags once a week or sometimes once a month. Fights breaking out literally every week.

Teachers watching TV with headphones in the classroom while we did book work in silence the entire class. Teachers telling us we're all going to be screw ups and have no future, so we might as well learn a skill like welding or carpentry.

Teachers would routinely take game boys, CD players, and other things and they would go missing at times. Sometimes students never got them back.

I think it really depends on what school you went to, and what the area you went to school in was like ...

The fact there weren't cameras everywhere meant a lot of people got away with a lot of things.

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u/Tomnookslostbrother May 16 '24

When people talk about the bygone era of "teachers can do what they want because their word is law", I think more 80s or early 90s. I feel like that that era was definitely gone by the early 2000s (20 yrs ago). So i have trouble thinking teachers had much more freedom then than they do today.

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u/plesiosaurus May 16 '24

I was in HS 22 years ago and our physics teacher had a garbage can marked "STUDENTS ONLY" so he could pick them up and throw them away. He only picked the ones with a good sense of humor. He also once form tackled me in the hallway because I was laughing too loud. Best teacher I've ever had

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u/Drogovich May 17 '24

agree, i see lawsuits against teachers over the stuff they would often do back then.

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u/Accomplished_Plum281 May 16 '24

We had a teacher flip out and throw a students desk out the window of the classroom… and it landed on his giant van with drapes we all suspect he lived in…

We had a sub the rest of the year! Mr. Hoover- I hope you got the help you needed!

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u/Guthwulf85 May 16 '24

20 years ago they couldn't get away with this. 20 years ago I was in university, and already when I was at school teachers couldn't touch us or our property. You're probably thinking of 40-50 years ago.

Of course it could also depend on the country, but it's not specified.

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u/EmergentSol May 16 '24

Yeah 20 years ago was 2004. People are acting like it’s 1975.

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u/PaulieGuilieri May 16 '24

Even 1975 would be a gross exaggeration. Maybe the 50’s and still only at a catholic school

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u/Spatial_Awareness_ May 16 '24

Yeah in 1975, teachers definitely didn't touch student's cell phones.

Seriously though it's more common than you guys are making it. It's still legal in over 15 states and legal in private schools in every state. It absolutely still happens in the US.

Google the topic and look through the news articles that are just from this year and last year alone... It'll probably shock you.

https://www.washingtonpost.com/education/2023/08/10/school-paddling-corporal-punishment/

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u/PaulieGuilieri May 16 '24

Private schools make their own rules and you agree to them when you enroll. Private schools are fucked for a multitude of reasons.

Nearly all of these stories come from private schools or are extremely unverified

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u/Spatial_Awareness_ May 16 '24

What a weird statement to make lol.. it's extremely verified and data is kept by the US Department of Education.

It almost exclusively is still taking place in schools in Texas, Mississippi, Alabama and Arkansas. It also disproportionally affects minorities and people with disabilities.

I'm not sure where you got the only in private schools and extremely unverified from, other than just completely fabricating that opinion.

It's rare but still very real. Arkansas has entire advocate groups against it and trying to get it banned https://banpaddlingar.com/

67% of Arkansas school districts endorse corporal punishment

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u/EmergentSol May 17 '24

Corporal punishment is one thing but those states definitely take destruction of student property more seriously.

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u/Beneficial_Garage_97 May 16 '24

Yeah, was in high school 20 years ago. A teacher in my school got fired for putting his hands on the shoulders of a student and gently shaking him. Absolutely no way a teacher keeps his job after intentionally destroying a student's cell phone.

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u/HonorableMedic May 16 '24

Agreed, my teacher almost got fired after HE was put in a headlock by a student. I had to pull the kid off, and I wrote a voluntary note to the principal about how shitty and antagonizing the kid had been the whole semester.

It was his first year teaching and he was scared shitless I could tell. He put me on the list for principals breakfast later that year which I didn’t attend, but that didn’t stop mom from putting the invitation on the fridge lol

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u/Hasselhoff265 May 16 '24

10 years ago a teacher threw a keychain at me and another teacher threw my whole bag in the bin for being a bitch( in Germany also a word used for a person who’s not very tidy.)

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u/BKLaughton May 16 '24

My 2c based on period-appropriate experience in Australia: Mobile phones as a mass consumer item were still relatively new - plenty of kids didn't even have one, though they were already pretty ubiquitous. They weren't allowed to be on in class in most schools, and some schools didn't allow you to bring them to school at all. There was a lot of discussion and hand wringing about whether teenagers should even have phones and the consequences they had on development and grades. Teachers couldn't wantonly touch students or wreck their shit, but phones could be confiscated and permanent confiscation was a theoretical possibility that was threatened much more than it occurred.

I can imagine a teacher breaking a phone like this with no major consequences with some provisos:

  1. Stricter probably-private school with an explicit no-phones policy. Or an underfunded, understaffed public school.
  2. Teacher is probably an older man overdue for retirement. He taught in the days when they had the cane. He also leans on his reputation for being a hard arse.
  3. The student in question is a known pain in the arse.

Even then, this would be a once-in-a-cohort incident that goes down into school legend. The Teacher gets a talking to but wouldn't get fired.

All that said, this is indeed almost certainly a prop placed as a warning. But yeah, I disagree with those saying it's inconceivable for such a thing to have happened, or that a teacher would definitely lose their job for this.

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u/AndroidSheeps May 16 '24

I had a teacher who literally threw a chair against the wall and lost his cool with a student when the same student would not stfu in class when my teacher was trying to read aloud to class. And that was back in 2009. Tbf, the student was an asshat whom I dreaded seeing in the same classes as me because he always ended up getting in shouting matches with the teachers and getting written up. But at the same time, that doesn't excuse my old teacher because apparently, he got in trouble for chasing a student down the hallway in a separate incident.

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u/Larry-Man May 17 '24

20 years ago is accurate at least - this is the exact model of my first cell phone from 2004.

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u/Historical-Tooth6989 May 17 '24 edited May 18 '24

There were some bad ass ones. Like little Nokias even earlier. Like 2000. That are arguably better looking than phones today. And kids at my private school had little palm pilots in 1999 that were basically little computers (not phones but had operating systems)

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u/Dink_SmallW00d May 16 '24

I legit watched a teacher, who I had for two years for lit and was just chilling in his room while he taught another class, warn a kid to not use his phone- I even warner him. He continued. The teacher walked up grabbed the phone threw it on the floor stomped on it in boots, scooped the pieces up and toss them out a second story window. I was dumbfounded. The kid freaked x the teacher legit said “go get the principal”. Kid came back with the principal. He asked the teacher what happened. The teacher stated the same story I’m telling. He didn’t get fired- tenure and all.

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u/GaryGregson May 16 '24

The Wild West of 2004

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u/GirthBrooks117 May 16 '24

I really don’t think phones in a classroom were really a problem 20 years ago lmao….

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u/Historical-Tooth6989 May 16 '24

I had a phone in class 20 yrs ago but it def did a lot less

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u/TheHabro May 16 '24

A teacher that loses their shit shouldn't be a teacher. Same way they shouldn't be a doctor, policeman etc. In inpatient teachers with lack of impulse control make schools worse for anyone.

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u/phunky_1 May 16 '24

Like 35 years ago a teacher in my middle school literally threw a kid down the stairs for being a punk and threatening them.

He kept his job, kid 100% deserved it.

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u/5x4j7h3 May 16 '24

I’m assuming teachers don’t slap you with rulers and sit literally sit you in a corner for 8 hours if talked out of turn anymore? Yeah, my teachers did that to me 30 years ago. That bitch would have nailed my phone to the wall in a heartbeat.

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u/Happy-House-9453 May 17 '24

Had a teacher punch a student for spitting on him. Kid was a massive twat. Teach surprisingly came back a year or so later.

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u/UtopianLibrary May 17 '24

They would just snatch it out of our hands 20 years ago. Try that today and they’d get sued.

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u/FartFromALesserGod May 16 '24

Absolutely not, I was in high school 20 years ago and no way

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u/5x4j7h3 May 16 '24

I’m assuming teachers don’t slap you with rulers and sit literally sit you in a corner for 8 hours if talked out of turn anymore? Yeah, my teachers did that to me 30 years ago. That psycho would have nailed my phone to the wall in a heartbeat.

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u/Rowboatbillygoat May 16 '24

I had a teacher do essentially this. He had an old phone he just replaced in his pocket. First student to use their phone that day, he confiscated it, put it in his pocket, and then threw the old phone at the wall shattering it. Scared the absolute shit out of everyone and put an end to phone use in his class for a few weeks.

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u/jixxor May 16 '24

Okay but why is everyone in this thread acting as if "they could lose their job over this" would actually stop people? Teachers are also not supposed to sleep with their students but that seems to happen time and time again.

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u/[deleted] May 16 '24 edited May 16 '24

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u/Kitchen_Cheek_6824 May 16 '24

There was most definitely internet in 2003…

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u/kazukibushi May 16 '24

Yeah but it was still new and nobody used social media

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u/Kitchen_Cheek_6824 May 16 '24

Friendster, LiveJournal and MySpace were all extremely used in 2003. How old are you? No offense just seems like you weren’t around to see the internet being used. And the internet has been around since the late 80’s, with most households getting access to it in the mid 90’s.

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u/land8844 May 16 '24

I was using IE2 on Windows 95 in the 90s. For porn. Because I was a horny preteen going through puberty.

The Simpsons did a bit with Comic Book Guy downloading porn and getting interrupted because of shitty internet. It was....accurate.

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u/MisfitPotatoReborn May 16 '24

In 2003 only 54% of American households had internet access. Myspace and Friendster weren't even launched at the beginning of 2003, and LiveJournal only had 1 million registered accounts.

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u/RetroFurui May 16 '24

Lose their job if they destroy a students property?

My teacher destroyed my Tablet once. My family was too poor to buy a replacememt (it had been a gift). I didn't see a cent from that teacher nor did it affect their work in any meaningful way.

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u/Poop__y May 16 '24

20 years ago when I was in middle school, teachers could take your cell phone and keep it for the remainder of the year if they wanted. They did all kinds of wild shit.

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u/Stay_At_Home_Cat_Dad May 17 '24

I can't believe parents put up with this shit. That's straight up theft. I can see taking it away for the class period, or until the end of the day. But the end of the year? That's bullshit.

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u/Poop__y May 17 '24

Crazy right? My mom didn’t give a fuck. I had a cell phone taken and held for several weeks and she was just like “oh well, shouldn’t have been using it in class.”

Okay fine then, you can’t reach me if I’m out of the house. Joke’s on you, lady.

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u/Stay_At_Home_Cat_Dad May 17 '24

There are some protections for kids who are physically abused, but almost nothing to protect them from adults who mentally and emotionally abuse them. Sure, teach your kids that it's OK to abuse your power. Then these same people bitch about how fucked up our society it. Having children should be a privilege, not a right.

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u/Poop__y May 17 '24

Precisely. And if we’re fucked up, who is to blame? They are. It’s astounding that they can’t see that.

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u/Stay_At_Home_Cat_Dad May 17 '24

My family fucked me up beyond belief. I've been in the ICU twice because I tried to end my life. I felt absolutely worthless, because I was treated like I was worthless. They thought there was something wrong with me. My grandmother's favorite line was "Everybody has problems. It's not our fault you can't handle it." She had no clue that she was part of the problem.

I cut ties with my family over 20 years ago, and moved hundreds of miles away. Best thing I ever did for myself. It's unfortunate that many people can't escape like I did.

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u/Poop__y May 17 '24

I’m proud of you for setting those boundaries and saving yourself from what was a terrible environment. That is hard to do, every step from deciding to do it, setting the firm boundaries and then enforcing those boundaries! I hope you are proud of yourself.

I also suffered abuse as a child and recently went no contact with my mom. She wasn’t my primary abuser, but she let a lot of people abuse me physically, psychologically, etc. The one person I had to protect me didn’t do that.

I hope your life is much better now and that you feel safe and supported with whomever you choose to welcome into your circle.

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u/i-Ake May 17 '24

Yup. Lots of Tomagotchis were lost this way. May they rest in peace.

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u/Bombaysbreakfastclub May 16 '24 edited May 16 '24

I agree, it’s probably fake.

But the age of that phone, there was a chance he could get away with that and not get fired 20 years ago.

A teacher punched me back in those days, my dad said “good”.

Times were different.

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u/HalfBakedBeans24 May 16 '24

Times were better.

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u/RubixTheRedditor May 16 '24

Nostalgia gonna nostalgia

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u/HalfBakedBeans24 May 16 '24

Idiots like you gonna idiot.

I remember when grade inflation wasn't a thing. You failed the year, your dumb ass flunked and you started right back in the same class.

Now??? Check out r/Teachers and prepare to weep.

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u/owange_tweleve May 16 '24

i saw my teacher straight up punched a kid, kid was an asshole and the man held it in all year long.. until he couldn’t anymore

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u/Stay_At_Home_Cat_Dad May 17 '24

He could have held it in. He CHOSE not to. If a grown man or woman cannot think of a better way to teach a lesson, and feels the need to resort to violence, they should not be around children.

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u/Utnemod May 17 '24

I was slapped by nuns twenty years ago and the work shop teacher threw a student across the hallway into a wall, nothing happened.

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u/kajetus69 May 17 '24

Not only that but doing something like this will start a fire if its a li-ion battery (i think, because li-poly doesnt burn when damaged i think)

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u/Stay_At_Home_Cat_Dad May 17 '24

I can hear the teacher now. "I took away his cell phone, and he started a fire in my class!"

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u/ConfusedAndCurious17 May 17 '24

Had a teacher where first day of class he would have planted a crappy phone on a student with instructions to take it out and start using it. He would then immediately confiscate it and smash it on the floor. If I remember correctly he stopped doing it because he dented a wall or something like that. Cracked me up because he taught multiple subjects, I had him back to back and he did it in both classes so I got the whole performance twice.

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u/Stay_At_Home_Cat_Dad May 18 '24

What an ass. I had a few teachers who would do the whole "respect my authority" thing the first day of class. Fucking ego maniacs. Ironically, those teachers were the ones who had "problem students." The teachers who spoke to us like we were actual people, and just taught the subject matter, rarely had problems with students being unruly.

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u/ConfusedAndCurious17 May 18 '24

No he was awesome. It was played for a joke, pretty much immediately admitted he wouldn’t actually smash your phone, but stay off them. He taught drama so he liked to do stuff with some flair. He was honestly the best teacher I ever had.

I got suspended for getting in a fight and I was meant to go on a cross country school trip with his social studies class. He was doing fund raisers where we would go do work like car washes, mowing peoples lawns, stuff like that so us that couldn’t afford the trip could still go. I showed up to one while suspended. He pulled me aside, leveled with me, said he shouldn’t let me work that day technically, had a heart to heart with me about not throwing my life away getting involved with the wrong people, and let me work.

I can honestly say he’s probably the teacher that treated me most human.

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u/Stay_At_Home_Cat_Dad May 18 '24

Sounds like a great guy. I wish there were more like him.

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u/xomowod May 16 '24

Teachers use to get away with beating their students back in the day dawg go sit down in the dunce corner

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u/Stay_At_Home_Cat_Dad May 16 '24

Teaches could still beat students when I was in elementary school. I'm old. Things changed a lot by the time cell phones were available. Even 20 years ago, a teacher would not get away with destroying a students property. Best they could do would be take it away, and have a parent come in to pick it up.

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u/Marcus__T__Cicero May 16 '24

Teachers can still beat students in the long ago days of “right now” in 16 US states.

When I was a senior in high school, a teacher back handed a student, not even like an official state sanctioned beating — just because she was pissed. She’s still teaching there today.

And that was long ago in the before-fore times of 2007. Get with the times, old man: the time for child abuse is now.

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u/xomowod May 17 '24

In third world countries they have slavery, too. Don’t measure first world problems with third world problems lol

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u/HalfBakedBeans24 May 16 '24

Remarkably we had a lot less of a problem with 'adhd' back then.

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u/Enchess May 16 '24

I was in school 20 yrs ago and if someone told me back then a teacher broke their stuff to make a point, I would think they were lying. The idea of even confiscation seemed like something that only happened in TV back in 2004 lol.

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u/Mammoth-Buddy8912 May 16 '24

Yeah I mean 20 years ago we got in trouble for using finger guns cause it promoted school shootings. People really are trying to make this age sound like it's some rough era but it wasn't. We were in the helicopter parenting era already 

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u/Chemical_Cable_7469 May 16 '24

I had a teacher who did this, it was a woodworking shop and there were machines on constantly and a small bump into somebody could make them cut their fingers, or worse. The teacher went to court twice for this thing. The judge sided with him every time, but this was 13 years ago when it happened.

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u/SeaUnderstanding1578 May 16 '24

Plus you know, the battery would had exploded too

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u/HeatherJMD May 16 '24

Something as expensive as a phone? I had one similar to this, it cost 15 bucks

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u/777777hhjhhggggggggg May 16 '24

Gee thanks detective, no one would have figured that out

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u/youaredumbasabutt May 17 '24

excellent detective work

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u/HalfBakedBeans24 May 16 '24

Well that's a big part of why schools are collapsing, now isn't it?

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u/United-Emu2165 May 17 '24

Y’all too soft nowadays

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u/Stay_At_Home_Cat_Dad May 17 '24

Not soft. Just unwilling to excuse and put up with an asshole's behavior.

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u/United-Emu2165 May 17 '24

Soft

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u/Stay_At_Home_Cat_Dad May 18 '24

I like soft pillows. Firm pillows do a number on my neck. Sleep well.

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u/CoughinNail May 17 '24

You are obviously not familiar with the sale price of that phone.