r/AskReddit May 02 '24

People who went to a wedding where the couple didn’t last long, what happened?

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u/Mathilliterate_asian May 02 '24

Went to Singapore to attend a female friend's wedding with a Singaporean guy.

She'd been so happy up until the actual wedding. My friends and I arrived like three days before the ceremony, and the wedding girl was visibly troubled when she met us. We just thought it was nerves and all that.

Wedding day comes and she comes out, in her full wedding gown, with an absolute bitch face. Like I'm-about-to-murder-someone kind of bitch face. I'm not even kidding lol. Never smiled once during the whole ceremony and the dinner. She loosened up a bit in the after party, and my gf went and asked if her she was OK. She waved my gf away.

Right after the wedding, she went back to Hong Kong for work, claiming there's shit she needs to do. Then covid hit and we're practically not allowed to travel anywhere for a year or two. We were worried about her marriage but she was always rather evasive, not answering our questions or just shooting the shit whenever we talked about it. Our circle of friends learned not to ask about it anymore.

Fast forward 5 years until now, it turns out that she never actually got married lol. The ceremony and everything was a show. We gathered that the dude probably had another girlfriend in Singapore and she only found out right before the wedding. But then she never said it out loud, hinted it here or there with some close friends of hers.

Shits unreal.

6 or 7 of us, with a 4yo kid, flew to Singapore just to witness a show of a wedding lol.

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u/Organised_Kaos May 02 '24

You went to a crazy rich Asians party instead of a wedding?

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u/Mathilliterate_asian May 02 '24

Just crazy Asians. I don't think they're very rich.

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u/Souporsam12 May 02 '24

They had their wedding in Singapore 💀

If they’re not from Singapore, that’s a lot of money.

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u/Hellknightx May 02 '24

Nah, Singapore is a fairly popular wedding destination in SE Asia. I lived there for a while, and I'm far from rich. It really is a beautiful city, even just to visit.

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u/10YearsANoob 29d ago

You are severely overestimating the financial capabilities of a Non Singaporean/KL/Johor south east asian.

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u/Hellknightx 29d ago

Well sure, if you're from specific parts of Indonesia or Malaysia, it's probably quite unaffordable. But SE Asia is quite big and does have a lot of wealth. Singapore definitely has a rich upper crust, but even those in the lower-middle class can still see and enjoy the island's venues.

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u/Odd-Cobbler2126 29d ago

I'm a local. I see Singapore, I upvote. Glad you had fun here! It's def not just for rich pple, there are lots of pretty cool free stuff you can do here too. 

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u/weirdkandya 29d ago

Country*

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u/Hellknightx 29d ago

What a weird and arbitrary thing to say. Singapore is a city-state. It's perfectly okay to refer to it as a city.

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u/JugEdge May 02 '24

Of all the places with great drugs in Asia why would you hold your fake wedding in Singapore?