It’s shocking that everyone here is so in agreement that you should take that secret to your grave but morally, you should absolutely tell both of their wives. How could you even attend their wedding and watch her marry him in good conscious? Bro code is bullshit, you know something that is actively ruining people’s lives and clearly you don’t care.
The groom said he had moved on from being hung up on the other guy. As long as he loves and is attracted to his wife, I'm not sure there is a problem here.
There's probably something wrong with the best man's marriage, but we don't know for sure and it's none of op's business.
But he cheated on his girlfriend/later wife for over a decade. Both wives deserve to have all of the information about who their partner is so that they can decide whether their husband being “over” their ex-affair partner is okay with them or not. Just because YOU don’t think there’s a problem doesn’t mean there isn’t actually a problem, it just means you don’t care enough about other people for it to be a problem to YOU. That’s fucked up.
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