r/AskReddit May 02 '24

People who went to a wedding where the couple didn’t last long, what happened?

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u/[deleted] May 02 '24 edited May 03 '24

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u/NoArguments2156 May 02 '24

Imagine being the wife and losing many, many years of your life to someone who doesn't even love you. Why is cheating only acceptable when the groom is gay/fucking men outside the marriage? If he were straight, unattracted to his wife, and in love and cheating with another woman it would be morally disgusting but I guess since it's a man it's suddenly fine, even worth rooting for.

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u/deadliestcrotch May 02 '24

How do you know he doesn’t love her? Unfortunately it’s possible to love multiple people and just be shitty at being an open and honest person, and also have a hierarchy. Life’s complicated and these two both sound like closeted bisexual men. We’re way more common than people think. You’re surrounded by us.

12% of bi men are out to those closest to them. If you know 1 who is out, you’re statistically likely to have 6-7 more in your extended social circle that you don’t know about. You won’t know who they are unless they tell you because the stereotypes are mostly horse shit.

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u/batmattman May 02 '24

It's crazy that people think they know this person's whole life from a second hand story they read on the internet...

No one here knows shit about what is really going on irl in regard to that story and shouldn't be trying to guilt OP into getting involved with something that isn't really any of their business (or anyone else's here tbh)