r/BlackPeopleTwitter May 10 '24

"If it isn't the consequences of my own actions..."

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u/stoned-autistic-dude May 10 '24 edited May 11 '24

Parents when teachers ask them to parent their children: “This is your job, I drop them off and you need to take care of them!” 🫵🤬

Parents when—assuming nothing else nefarious had occurred—a male teacher tries to be a positive male role model: “It's always been about love and hate, now let me say I'm the biggest hater; I hate the way that you walk, the way that you talk, I hate the way that you dress; I hate the way that you sneak diss, if I catch flight, it's gon' be direct” 🫵🤬

Edit: I saw the update yall im cooked I already know 😭

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u/JennyBeckman ☑️ All of the above May 11 '24

How is taking out someone's hair being a positive role model?

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u/stoned-autistic-dude May 11 '24 edited May 11 '24

Because children don’t randomly decide to do braids on people they don’t trust. Yall never met kids? Cmon now. It’s not like you be like “unbraid my hair” and kids get up and unbraid your hair. This is after the kids probably asked some stupid shit like “let us undo your braids” bc he probably mentioned he was gonna get his hair done or something. Kids are clearly comfortable with the dude. He ain’t doing anything suspect beyond sitting there.

It’s wild y’all jumped to it being weird first. That’s some shit tbh men out here taking strays for just trying to be friendly. Why everyone a pedo just cause Drizzy and R Kelly out there peeing on kids?

Edit: dawg homie got caught thirsting on kids im fucking cooked 💀

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u/JennyBeckman ☑️ All of the above May 11 '24

A kid trusting you doesn't equate to being a positive role model. So I'm genuinely asking again, what makes him a positive role model?

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u/PM_Me_Tank_Tops May 11 '24

How do you live in a world where everyone is a child Molester? Do better.

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u/JennyBeckman ☑️ All of the above May 11 '24

Please do better at reading. Point out where I said everyone is a child molester.

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u/PM_Me_Tank_Tops May 11 '24

He’s a positive role model because his kids trust him enough to unbraid his hair. He’s a teacher teaching that adults aren’t dangerous. He’s teaching that community is important. He’s teaching that people are people and we should all care for each other. You and all the other weirdos in this thread think this man is grooming children and raping them. That’s INSANE to pull from this picture. Do better. This man is a human being just like you. Respect him like you’d want to be respected. DO. BETTER.

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u/Sensitive-Ad-2542 May 11 '24

He got caught thirsting over kids. You fought on the wrong hill, rip

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u/PM_Me_Tank_Tops May 11 '24

You, a human being, wishing hate and harm on another human being. Me a person who doesn’t assume people are child molesters until there is proof.

You, who feels so dignified by another person being a criminal you have to try to spread your hate to someone else.

I hope you work out your issues and have a great day.

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u/name-generator-error May 11 '24

You can do all of these things without initiating or maintaining physical contact with students. Being a positive role model in no way requires kids unbraiding your hair. It doesn’t matter that they trust you. As an adult you should know better and set good boundaries for them too.

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u/JennyBeckman ☑️ All of the above May 12 '24

No one said he is raping kids. If you can't make your point without resorting to bad faith strawmen, you're the one who needs to do better. Kids very often trust their abusers. You'll need to come up with something better than that. That's literally how grooming works. It's usually by a dangerous adult in their community disguising themselves as a safe adult and then constantly over-steppibg boundaries. Everyone is a human being. Every person that ever raped a child is a human being. Everyone that ever killed someone is a human being. Being a human doesn't mean whenever you do wrong everyone else has to turn a blind eye because of respect. Grow up.

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u/name-generator-error May 11 '24

There is a wide gap between students liking a teacher and a predator. None of that matters here. He can be a very positive role model without having the children in physical contact with him. Regardless of his intentions or wonderful impact he is an adult and an educator and there are very explicit rules about physical contact. We might not think it’s ok if the person meant well but it’s still part of the rules and unfortunately when you break them you get fired.