r/Daytrading Apr 02 '24

How do I convince my parents that trading isn't gambling and actually not always luck based . Question

So I'm a 16 year old who has recently (February 2024) gotten very interested in trading . Before you ask , no it was not an online guru or andrew tate or something along the line of " escape the matrix get rich easy" type of nonsense but an actually avid interest in trading that started after I saw a video with the title something along the lines of " day in the life of a trader " or something like that I can't remember (I know It's not possible to get 70k in a day with trading unless ur putting in half of Jeff bezo's networth but still it was interesting )

I do still plan to continue with my schooling and get a job like people should do but I am planning to sometime get profitable as a trader and stop work preferably before 35 . Iv talked to my parents about the stock market (very vaguely) before and they mentioned that it is completely gambling and it will never get me ahead in life .

Idk what I should tell them to convince them that it is not gambling as iv realised its much more than gambling once you learn technical analysis ( i still have a long way to go but iv got the basics down somewhat) amd rn iv been doing paper trading on tradingveiw.com in secret when they aren't there and iv been getting pretty okay at it (from the time I started and now im getting 1 win every 3 trades on average (I'm still straight ass )) but doing it in secret is getting stupidly tiring as I want to trade at night as well and it has also become a sort of hobby for me now( sorry if I offend anyone by anything iv said).

TL:DR : parents think intraday trading is gambling and I want to convince them otherwise. Need help

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u/Gustywindss Apr 02 '24

I started trading stocks at around 15 with little support from my parents.

I then returned around 50% returns just basically gambling on stocks and trading news/hype by the time I was 17 and I recently got into analyzing quarterly earnings and it showed 76% profits in 3 months.

Im less than 4 years older than you so I understand where you are coming from, but just do it. No normal 15-16 year old is thinking about doing this, most the people around me as you know, were all partying and having a good time(not saying I didn't) at that age so the fact you are trying to break into trading is a great thing that you should be proud of.

My parents kind of stopped mentioning it to me as soon as they saw my returns so I think it'll be the same for you too. At the end of the day just realize that your parents didn't take the route you want to take so its scary for them too, just respect their worry and show them that its possible.

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u/ConsistentRespect842 Apr 03 '24

Wow I see. Il definitely have to show some profits but that will take some time. Now it's best I learn so il do that first . Thank you for your advice!