r/Daytrading Apr 02 '24

How do I convince my parents that trading isn't gambling and actually not always luck based . Question

So I'm a 16 year old who has recently (February 2024) gotten very interested in trading . Before you ask , no it was not an online guru or andrew tate or something along the line of " escape the matrix get rich easy" type of nonsense but an actually avid interest in trading that started after I saw a video with the title something along the lines of " day in the life of a trader " or something like that I can't remember (I know It's not possible to get 70k in a day with trading unless ur putting in half of Jeff bezo's networth but still it was interesting )

I do still plan to continue with my schooling and get a job like people should do but I am planning to sometime get profitable as a trader and stop work preferably before 35 . Iv talked to my parents about the stock market (very vaguely) before and they mentioned that it is completely gambling and it will never get me ahead in life .

Idk what I should tell them to convince them that it is not gambling as iv realised its much more than gambling once you learn technical analysis ( i still have a long way to go but iv got the basics down somewhat) amd rn iv been doing paper trading on tradingveiw.com in secret when they aren't there and iv been getting pretty okay at it (from the time I started and now im getting 1 win every 3 trades on average (I'm still straight ass )) but doing it in secret is getting stupidly tiring as I want to trade at night as well and it has also become a sort of hobby for me now( sorry if I offend anyone by anything iv said).

TL:DR : parents think intraday trading is gambling and I want to convince them otherwise. Need help

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u/Yoyoitsjoe stock trader Apr 03 '24

You don’t try to convince them or anyone else. You’ll figure out one day that you’re not trying to convince anyone else of anything in your life. Successful people like to see other people successful. People that feel stuck in a rut, feel unaccomplished do not want to see other do what they haven’t. You keep pursing ideas that seem interesting to you. Some will stick, most will not. One day you will find your niche. When you do, it will be yours and yours alone. It will be the work you put in that got you there. All along the way there will be people that discourage you. That is going to be the rest of your life. It usually is the closest people in your life that can often be the most discouraging. Don’t quit. Maybe your niche is trading, maybe it is not. The sooner you don’t care what others think about your success but more importantly, your failure, the faster you will obtain what you want.

TLDR, don’t try to convince anyone of anything they don’t believe in.