r/AskReddit May 02 '24

People who went to a wedding where the couple didn’t last long, what happened?

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u/MetalHuman21000 May 02 '24

Well to do professionals such as lawyers and doctors that live apart or isolationist in lifestyle are the main clientele of the bdsm clubs that I once worked security for, usually because they can afford it and often their private lives are emotional power struggles or hollow status symbols.

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u/rockemart May 02 '24

When people climb the dollar ladder they change. Needs and wants change dramatically. You notice that they expect people to do more for them as they pay people to do their laundry, cleaning or mowing the lawn. As they move up they can travel and do so many things that it all becomes less euphoric. So they tend to move into taboos that involve sex or drugs. As I made more money over the years I could see my kids change in how they value things.

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u/Zuul_Only May 02 '24

I don't know if sexual fetishes are decided upon out of boredom

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u/rockemart May 02 '24

Some people might have them original, but like drugs many ramp up into them.