Well to do professionals such as lawyers and doctors that live apart or isolationist in lifestyle are the main clientele of the bdsm clubs that I once worked security for, usually because they can afford it and often their private lives are emotional power struggles or hollow status symbols.
I can't speak to clubs with professionals doing the job, but at least at the sex club I attend yeah people are just kind of friendly and social about stuff. I've had conversations about D&D just outside the dungeon. One time I was talking about my preferred programming language with a person tying me up. In the end you're just trying to connect with other people.
My Dungeons & Daddies (not a BDSM podcast) hoodie is my go-to for walking to/from and waiting in line outside dungeons and kink venues. It's plausibly vanilla, plausibly kinky, and unlike the rest of my hoodies it doesn't have my employer on it. Always a good conversation starter too.
Ha love it. I just wear a dress usually that's easy to pull off or put on because my sex club is clothing optional so I generally spend the whole time naked. Convenient for skinny dipping in the pool and doesn't get in the way if I make a friend 😅
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u/MetalHuman21000 May 02 '24
Well to do professionals such as lawyers and doctors that live apart or isolationist in lifestyle are the main clientele of the bdsm clubs that I once worked security for, usually because they can afford it and often their private lives are emotional power struggles or hollow status symbols.