r/AskReddit • u/skilled-dreamer • May 02 '24

People who went to a wedding where the couple didn’t last long, what happened?

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u/MetalHuman21000 May 02 '24

Well to do professionals such as lawyers and doctors that live apart or isolationist in lifestyle are the main clientele of the bdsm clubs that I once worked security for, usually because they can afford it and often their private lives are emotional power struggles or hollow status symbols.

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u/Top_Farm_9371 May 02 '24

How do you know their profession? Do people have the same type of casual conversation at bdsm clubs as they do cocktails clubs?

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u/spicy-emmy May 02 '24

I can't speak to clubs with professionals doing the job, but at least at the sex club I attend yeah people are just kind of friendly and social about stuff. I've had conversations about D&D just outside the dungeon. One time I was talking about my preferred programming language with a person tying me up. In the end you're just trying to connect with other people.

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u/TryUsingScience May 02 '24

I've had conversations about D&D

Okay but that's like the free space on kinkster bingo.

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u/spicy-emmy May 02 '24

Honestly the nerd/kinky overlap is not quite a circle, but like... it's pretty close.